Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
In Westchester NY from July 24th till August 9th.
I respond to pretty much all..except for just Hi.. come on would
you answer something like that towards you just as a message? And I
am recently single after a bad breakup so the idea of dating is a
bit daunting for me. I would love to start as friends first. And
I'm dominant, and no Christian Grey and I have nothing in common. I
know, I know. BDSM is a scary word, but despite the recent
portrayal by 50 Shades of Grey, It's actually a safe, fun
relationship which requires a lot of communication and trust. I
could go into detail and list everything that was abusive in 50
Shades but I won't. Just know that BDSM is more about exploring
your sensuality and building a mutual trusting, caring
relationship. Yes it has kinks, and fetishes, but it's a vast
spectrum of people from the edges of extreme to those merely
curious. We accept everyone and all, and I could not be happier
with the people I've met. And yes I know, perhaps this did drive
away some of the folks I could have dated. But I'm open and honest,
and you can expect the same in all aspects of any relationship you
may have with me.
Oh and recently getting back into former miltary shape. Yes pics
are a bit older but now I supposedly look even cuter. And ask me
about the neat little hiking trails my friend and I discovered
Watched Hook recently and I loved it all over again. "So your
adventures are over." "Oh no, to live would be an awfully big
adventure. " And thats how I feel. I've had my share of adventures
but it's not over yet!
About to take Salsa lessons!
*This is something that's been bothering me for a while, I'm a
supporter of gay marriage. You're on a dating website, looking for
the love of your life, and you want to marry that someone, right?
Why should anyone who has found that love be denied that basic
right? You say it's a sin but what about compassion? What makes you
any different than them? So please, if you feel that way about gay
marriage, just hit the back button, delete your page, and go find
some other intolerant person to share your life. Because when I was
growing up in Greenwich Village of NYC, the apartment next to us
was a gay couple, and every now and then I could hear the Star Trek
Voyager theme song come on, and I would almost dive for the tv to
turn it on myself and watch that show. Gay people are nerds just
Often happy to provide financial advice for individuals and
I'm complex, sane, wild at times (Yes I do have a wild side :P) I'm
a full time student and working these days, so you'll usually see
me studying. I love bowling, minigolf, paint your own pottery,
being adventurous and fun. Sweet and a bit sarcastic :D
My life is now complete after finding
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
My mother put you up to this didn't she?
Former Coast Guard IT, currently going back to school for IT. I've
been a banker. Chased drug runners in the Caribbean, and helped
little old ladies cross the street. Life is about adventure, do you
really want to spend it in an office for the rest of your
Currently in the middle of a new project, working on developing my
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh.
Ex. When I die, I want to go like my grandfather, sleeping. Not
like his passengers, screaming.
Giving financial advice. Ex. Don't blow all your money in one
place..like a strip club.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
All kinds of food, everything from Italian, to Indian, to Sushi. I
enjoy cooking as well! I can do awesome chocolate covered
I love to read all kinds of books, everything from HP to Jim
Butcher's the Dresden files. My favorite genre is Science Fiction,
but I enjoy the subsection of Alternative History, it makes me
consider all the possible choices and actions we take.
I love rock music, especially old school rock. AC/DC. Apocalyptica,
Beatles, Seether, Metallica, Nirvana, Pink Floyd, Shinedown,
Coldplay, Buckcherry. Foreigner, Journey, Aerosmith. I like most
music except for Country.
Movies: Star Trek,The Godfather, Star Wars, the Matrix, 50 First
Dates, Top Gun, Casablanca, LOTR, some romantic comedies.
I love Doctor Who,How I Met Your Mother, BSG, The Big Bang Theory,
Mad Men, House of Cards(seriously mind blown!) Family Guy. Walking
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
conquering the worl.... I mean wondering where to travel to, and
how to get there, I've always wanted to go to Europe (already been
to the Caribbean)
Since I've seen on a number of profiles, of women about "Please
don't invite me to your threesome. " I wonder how that comes about
in messaging someone. I imagine the message to be something like
"Hey I saw you're bi and I don't consider you a person with
thoughts and feelings so come and be a sexual aid for my partner
and me?" I'm not knocking the threesomes, just knocking the people
that message women solely for the purpose of threesomes.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
either out with friends or relaxing from a long work week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I put off watching the last season of shows I love, to pretend that
if I don't finish them the show still lives on.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Please know the difference between your and you're. For instance,
your would be used in the sentence "Dude, where's your car?" You're
would be used for a sentence like "You're cute."
Do not message me with a hi? Come on, you can do better than that!
Or type lyk dis. It makes me weep for the English language.
Or if you wanted to ask questions about 50 Shades of Grey, I can
assure you it's nothing like that.
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