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31 San Jose, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 3:28am
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Sales / Marketing

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My self-summary
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* I'm currently working on re-writing this part. Don't worry, the "handsome" part hasn't changed.*
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm currently enrolled in school, step one in my goal of becoming a director. To pay the rent and tuition I spend my days marauding as a cell phone nerd. (Before that I was a litigation support nerd. And before that I was a pizza nerd. I engorge any and all information when it comes to what I do.) When I'm not doing those things I spend my time eating chicken with almost every meal and trying to do at least one self improvy thing a day. (Yes, "improvy". Look it up........... Didn't find anything, did you?)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Fantasy sports. Real sports.(If I coulda hit a baseball at 19 like I can at 30 things would have been a LOT different. Oh well :) ) Making old people smile. Keeping my promises. Taking what a person is saying and breaking it down and relaying it so others stop looking at them like a butthole.
The first things people usually notice about me
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The beard, my smile, my posture. And even now that I don't wear my glasses, people still go "oh, there's a smart black man, let's ask him about everything ever invented!" And then I end up telling them about everything ever invented, so, I guess I can't be too mad.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books- "Everyone Loves You When You're Dead" by Neil Strauss; "Directing For Actors"; "The Tipping Point" by Malcolm Gladwell; "Blink" by Malcolm Gladwell; "Outliers" by Malcolm Gladwell; "The House of Dies Drear" (I read, but not books. I tend to focus more on web articles that help with my creativity.)

Movies- "Fight Club"; "Major League"; "Death Proof" (Don't get me started on "Death Proof); "A Clockwork Orange"; "Shortbus"; "Starship Troopers"; "Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind"; "Hobgoblins"; "Kontrol"; "High Tension"

Shows- "Dexter"; "The Wire"; "Arrested Development"; "Seinfeld"; "The Sopranos"; "Tim and Eric: Awesome Show, Great Job!"; "The O.C."; "City Kids"; "Sports Night"

Music- "The Go! Team"; "Cake"; "Lykke Li"; "Los Campesinos"; "Lupe Fiasco"; "The Who"; "Nirvana"; "Limp Bizkit" (and yes, I know what year it is); "Kanye West"; "Mos Def"; "The Foo Fighters"; "Jamaroquai"; "Phoenix"; "Digitalism";

Food- Chicken, chicken, egg whites, waffles, chicken. (Why do I eat the same things everyday? Wouldn't you like to know....)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my phone
my pc
my contacts
my ambition
my family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I'm going to look in my future Tesla. Not bragging, or being arrogant. A friend of mine said to imagine what you want and you'll get it. So, that's what I think about. I don't fall victim to advertising often but I sat in one recently and fell in love.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At work. And then home. And then looking for places that serve Apple pie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I miss my family every day of the week.
You should message me if
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You're a cool girl that's not into bs, looking to meet a guy who also despises bs. No games, no drama. Life is too beautiful for all of that.

Also, I live in LA, I will not even entertain dating you if you live in New York, crazy lady.