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33 Madison, WI Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–99
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My details

Last online
Oct 23, 2014
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Working on two-year college
Seeing Someone
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Traveling on business from state to state, looking for friends as I pass. Though I was born in St.Paul and still call Madison WI, home. I am a contractor, I install networking and test it. I have recently been to Wichita, Seattle, new York city, and Orlando, several times.


I am a geek, but not a nerd. I am a square, and a strait edge. I don't drink or smoke, and I hate the stink of weed, like burnt tires.


my name is Raymond,
What I am looking for right now? People to talk to. I am looking for good conversation, kindred spirits, people who want to chat, people who share interests (men and women) and Networking. It might be nice to meet a few people to get together for hiking, bowling, mini golf, tennis, video games.

I just recently started as private contractor. Have skill will travel to highest bidder. I am a technician, and an engineer. I provide physical repair to digital electronics from all over the country. I refurbish computers, repair digital electronics, install software and provide consultation for those who need it. I also do physical installations and setup for server, and networking gear.

I win games with my mind, not my fists.
- However, I have been able to make some pretty big tough guys (who were most certainly able to hurt me) drop to their knees, without a single fist thrown.

I always speak the truth, about what I think, how I feel, and what I saw, even when egos and emotions are on the line. Many people look at this like some kind of gift, a thing that is an ideal. But when faced with living like that, they eventually freak out. I think most people actually hate honestly and truth even though they all ask for it.

I don't believe in a rule that says friends must reflect each others desires and personalities, regardless of my opinion of you, my hand will remain open. Choosing to ignore others based on petty differences in opinions and self-righteous attitudes is something I leave to others, I will not conduct myself like that. I enjoy having friends from different life choices and different places, even if we disagree. I believe that friends may disagree on things and even argue but at the end of the day they will still hold hands, fight back to back and even be as tight as family. If you think friends are like toys you buy at Walmart, that you can dispose of them when they bore you or don't see eye to eye, then I have no want to know you either.

I have never owned a gun, and have no intention of buying one, unless I move to a place that is dangerous enough... or I decide to start hunting.

The most significant and unfortunate flaw about me is my memory. Most have a better memory than mine. I might have a powerful mind, but it seems to get this -my memory capacity was also reduced. Names and numbers are easily forgotten, though so much else might be remembered. I certainly have no photographic memory abilities. However, I always have my camera with me, for those moments! :)
What I’m doing with my life
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Every day learning new things. Asking questions. Helping others with their questions. Learning new ways to do things. Finding or creating new tools so that I may do a higher quality job.

Biding my time, looking forward to the next semester, returning to school. I study so that I can do more than I can do now. So that I can be a better inventor, and a better technician, a better Engineer! So that I can help others like myself create what they see in their minds eye too. I embrace that feeling within to make stuff work and make new stuff. I embrace others desire to make the stuff they see in their minds work too!

Working on designs for new tools, that technicians use. Redesigning stuff the original creators were two absent minded to get right the first time. Looking for ways to create real upgrades to my engine and other devices, that aren't just simple patches to fix stupid mistakes. Designing my own personal air craft and a few unique parts. Looking at ways to redesign traditional transmissions to make more efficient use of the engine you already have. Working on designs for vehicle launch systems for space travel, and more efficient engines for our aircraft. I also take great interest in Mechanical and Biological engineering.
-I look forward to the day when we are able to code our own virus to repair damaged DNA, cure diseases and eventually help us all to evolve to the next level. No this isn't fiction, they have already cured Leukemia.

I make no secret of having a strong desire to fly. I would like very much to very soon construct an air craft of my own design. -I find it annoying that most, are so heads screwed on backwards that the idea of a man building an aircraft instantly makes him seem insane. We are so brain washed into thinking it's so difficult that no one dreams it themselves, every one simply looks down on others who pursue it. The reality is, nearly everything a man needs to fly is already on his computer or smart phone, and the hardware is easily acquired at Menard's, Home Depot, or eBay... silly superstitious humans!
I’m really good at
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• Invention:
Some people use a hair pin to pick a lock. I use hoop earnings to test electronics. I design tools to fit difficult jobs, and find the flaws in time tested designs that have been overlooked by their engineers. This one is hard to explain in simple terms unless you share the interest in engineering or invention too.

• Not getting sick:
I think it's been maybe 5 years since the last time I was really sick. It feels strange to think that it has been so many years since I had the flu, or a real cold. Not that I can afford to be sick... And no I am not bullshitting. Really the only thing I do different than any one else is take time to make sure my hands are washed properly, and not just rinsed and casually wiped like so many disgusting slobs practice.
-09/15/13 my first head cold in a very long time. I have not missed the pains, sore joints, and sore everything, never mind the intense allergy feeling of having just stuck my face into cat...

• My hands:
Assembling, Fixing, Disassembling, Creating, cooking, sewing, ironing, washing, etc. Clean hands keep me healthy. Strong hands make me money. Fast hands make my employer happy.

• Talking:
I will never complain you talk to much. To me there is not much more important than good communication. It solves problems, prevents problems, shares knowledge, and in general insures the survival of friendships and couples. People who talk are successful. People who don't talk, sit alone in empty key less towers of their own design.

• Survival:
People think they know what it means to survive, but do they really? Could people survive as well as they think. Could they use the same stuff for more than a year? I do, I can save better than any one you know because I am so good at survival. When the end comes, I don't think I'll outlive every one, I know it. -However, if you think I own nothing but garbage, it shows just how little you know. As before making assumptions.

• Cooking:
When you have a nonstandard situation how do you cook? Depend on a Microwave? -Don't make me sick. I can bake goods, fry, roast, and every good thing, without a stove, without an oven and yes, without a Microwave. When you have to survive with minimal cash, you learn new ways to do old things, or you die, it's that simple. Those who have been where I have, and lived to tell are fit to be the kings of the world. In terms of what I have learned to do without a microwave, stove, oven, or campfire!! I shall lead armies!! lol
-But don't get me wrong, I don't think I am nearly creative enough to be a cook on Iron Chef.
The first things people usually notice about me
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"very warm, too warm"
"look very familiar, look very medieval" - stranger
"Very strait forward and brutally honest" - friends
"stronger than you look" - friends, neighbors, and customers
"Thanks very much for being so nice" - telemarketers
"You seem very logical and analytical" - business
"After meeting you, I just don't know what to say" - OKC
"I could not be so patient, if I were you" - business
"Very helpful" - business
"you come well recommended" - business
"very informative" - business
"Patience like a Saint" - business
"I've just met the most patient man in the world" - customers
"Very Good with your hands" - neighbors
"pessimistic, and depressing" -friends
"very expressive with your face" - friends and strangers
"you are very logical" - OKC
"A wealth of knowledge" - customers
"promotes being Honest and Aboveboard" - OKC
"bombs with flair" - OKC
"every picture is creepy or intimidating" - OKC
"a different kind of weird, just weird" - OKC
"smell good" - Friend
"have attractive voice" -GF
"decent kisser" - GF

"cares too much" -Friend
"very Interesting comments (this) section" -OKC
"You drink a lot of soda, you are going to get diabetes"
"this guy can smell chicken miles away" - employer

I am 185lbs. I am average build. I have a slight belly (very Slight), it's only obvious when I want it to, and over the winter it's shrunken a little. I am not ripped, but I have decent strength, and surprise many.

I am complimented on my patience, and my kindness, my desire to help, that I care when no one needs to. People ask, how are you single? Women twice my age ask why I have no one on my arm. I do not believe I am a good one to ask. Though it be true, I have long since lost any desire to be any ones sexual partner. Though I would like to find a good partner period.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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my playlists
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NOVA, ANDROMEDA, STAR TREK NEXT GENERATION, VOYAGER, STAR TREK ENTERPRISE, Star Gate, DR WHO, Quantum Leap, FIREFLY, Far Scape, CHARMED, FRINGE, GRIMM, SANCTUARY, HAVEN, ONCE, Warehouse 13, EUREKA, to many to list. What don't I watch? Prime Time drama, and reality TV.
Log Horizon, SWORD ART ONLINE, Dot HACK, GUNDAM WING, DBZ, VOLTRON, TENCHI Universe, Ixion Saga DT, Sword Art Online, Nausicaa, Broken Blade, Guilty Crown, Candidate for Goddess, (really almost any except the dating based Animes), far far to many to list., it would be simpler if this list simply connected to my play history.
Super Mario Bro.3, Mario64, StarFox, Donkey Kong, FFVII, FFXI, FFXIV(v1), Classic Tetris, PS3 Soduku, Arkanoid spinoffs, All-Stars, Ghost Recon, AceCombat, PS3 DC Universe ONLINE, PS3@Home, PS3 Pinball, Sim City, Minecraft, etc etc.
Nine Princes in Amber, Great Book of Amber, Changling, Madwand,

honestly I don't read nearly as many books as I should, as it seems every one else has time for so many books. I do not much more than read all day, just not in books or fiction. I read all day as it is, nothing but reading. Face first in the computer all day. People who think that you have to spend your day reading only from a book in order to for it to count are simply snobs.


- inactive on PS3@Home
- inactive on PS3 DC universe ONLINE
- active in PS3 Sudoku, PS3 Pinball, Arkanoid, and Ace Combat
- active on PC Ghost Recon Online
- inactive on PC Minecraft
- inactive on PC Final Fantasy XIV: A Realm Reborn, and Star Wars: The Old Republic
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
water, air, sun, pencils, screw driver, magnet

thunderstorms, snow, ice, warm sunny days, flowering trees in the spring, birds
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
They we have discovered proof of aliens. That they came raining down from a passing comet. Micro Organisms from another place, not Earth. So what now? How long will it take us to come to terms with what we have learned? So far it seem most of the world is still in denial. They have determined to ignore the finding and proceed as if they had never been observed.

Constantly thinking about inventions and electronics. Things to build, things to modify. How to do this how to do that.

Trying to figure out how to get off the ground. No joke, how to get a small air craft or to build one. There are thousands of small personal air craft, most private made and a few hundred commercially produced, the USA is a really big country with very few small aircraft. I'd like to change that with one of my own.

Working over plans and ideas for software should I ever manage to get some one willing to write it for me. I have many programs I would like written and even a few hardware controllers. Maybe even someday an air craft systems controller and interface.

I think about how in school, people put labels on introverts, they even feared them. Now people have begun to admit that Introverts, are actually something greater. But the masses always fear things that are different and what they don't understand or cannot control. I cannot count the things I was told I was insane for doing or thinking and a few years later, its normal and every one seems to have forgotten they called me insane... sigh. For what it's all worth I might as well have been born a witch in the Dark Ages, though it be true I have never been stoned or burned at the cross.

Why in general when people that say they are "open minded," they are most often are NOT. And why when they say they are looking for open minded friends, it's usually code for having an STD, their position on smoking weed, or they are transgender. Really, just come out and say what you mean. When I talk about being open minded I mean, can you handle different things without being scared or offended. However when I ask the question, every one says YES, they runs away crying they lied.

Those of you with children, you really need to be putting them first. No one says you cannot look for love. But if your love interests cost you time with your children, or worse, harm them, your kids will never forgive you. Your children, love them or not are here for life. If you can't see a way to put your kids no. 1 in your life then, you are probably unfit to have any at all. No this is not negotiable or forgivable. You have kids, be there for them, it's your job and yours alone.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working to pay the bills. I wish I were comfortably wealthy, but I am not.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Enjoy the stories. It's weird stuff even to me.
When I dream it's very often of magic or flying with the rare future events things. Those dreams are often long and vivid. I wish, I could fly like I can in my dreams. I really do. Just me exploring, everything my legs were not enough for! The dreams happened many times over the years each one like training in a classroom, until at least I had complete control.

For no apparent reason my dream training has taken on a new direction. I am developing telekinesis. It even hurts a little trying to force the thing to rise. Can't remember if it was a chess piece or a salt shaker but making something levitate is far harder than you might think! It felt like some one pushing it back down as hard as I was trying to lift it up.
Haven't had any future visions in a while. Least that I know of. Trouble with them, is I don't really remember them until they happen... So much for seeing the future. Really.

I have talked with my mother and she too says she has had similar dreams starting when she was about 18 or so. But from what I gather mine have gone farther. Others have also admitted to having premonition type dreams. Most refer to it as a dejavu thing but I am not sure that description really fits the events.

Had a dream about strange circles in the sky and when I stopped to look and watch, a tornado came down, but it wasn't a tornado, because the swirl of clouds broke open a massive asteroid was falling from the sky. I tried to get a picture of it and I yelled at my mother to drive the car away as fast as possible and then park behind some stone buildings. I woke to the phone ringing.

Seperately I have dreampt that I had died no less than 5 times, and every time I died, I was alone. No one by my side, no one cared, to the world -I was already dead. I felt a deep sorrow, and I began to cry. I woke up this way, tears on my face.

I have also dreampt of my mother having died to and in those cases also woke up crying.

I deampt that I had driven from St.Paul to Madison a couple time and wondered how I had forgotten this, even though I was sure it had never happened. Of course, it was a dream. But a memory of a stop at a gas station I was nearly stranded at... I know it happened but I no longer remember where I was coming from. Interesting that dreams are now bringing up real memories.
- Of course reading this now I have no idea what I was talking about when I wrote this. I have absolutely no memory of this posting.
You should message me if
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# If you have gotten to this point, say something damn you! If you have a question, a comment, a compliment...
-Just say it!

# You just rated me. Ya id like to hear from you. You think im hot stuff? Say hello! You can be sure, I will.

#if You have questions or comments.

#Code Monkeys, Engineers, Technicians, Mechanics, Gamers, White Hat, are strongly encouraged to contact me. -Especially since I always have ideas that a programer would be welcome to use to make a lot of money, but are outside my abilities or resources. I just haven't found the right person for the job, and it is really annoying.

#In terms of the types of people I would like to meet as listed above, EVERYONE is encouraged to apply, man and woman.

#if You like getting your hands dirty, playing video games, board games, want to talk tech, or have computer questions.

#if You have more than 200 questions answered, a complete an honest profile, and 5 quizzes complete. You don't have to be a match, just have taken the time to be serious about being honest.