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rhb68

45 / M / Straight / Single

Brooklyn, New York

His Details

Last Online
Today – 6:39am
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Aries
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English, Japanese (Okay), Italian (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
"Easy like a Sunday mooorrr..oorr.. ning.." That's my theme song. Well, that or maybe the theme from Shaft. That always works.

My interests are wide and diverse. It's all about yin and yang. On any given day I might be strolling through Moma or out bowling with friends. Then on another cheering on the Yankees at the stadium with a cold beer in hand or at The Met opera listening to Verdi. Or maybe, sitting out in the park quietly meditating, then later on dancing at a lounge. I'm always up for expanding my existence.

With that you'll always find me practicing Krav Maga martial arts, running in Prospect Park, or out getting my golf swing working.

Rome, Tokyo, Paris, Prague, Sevilla, and St. Petersburg are all cities that I love. I visited Johannesburg last summer, and experienced great lessons in compassion and forgiveness. So, inspiring..
What I’m doing with my life
Laughing, loving those that really matter, being peaceful and happy. I'm a professional musician and educator. I'm so glad I got to work with some legends like Whitney, Ray Charles, and Barry White before they left us. Aretha is still fun though...Trying new ramen shops. I have a major ramen fetish.. Totto ramen keeps me happy luckily..
I’m really good at
Cooking. Yes I can burn, if I can say so myself. My father is a great cook. Thanks Dad.
The first things people usually notice about me
If they haven't seen me in a while, they wonder where my sixteen year old dreadlocks went!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Invisible Man, Crime and Punishment, Life of Pi, The Fire Next Time, Autobiography of Malcom X, Hamlet, Omnivore's Dillema, Lolita.

Movies: Anything by Almodovar, Kurosawa, Cassevettes, or Kubrick. The Godfather, Casablanca, Fight Club, Bound, Sexy Beast, There Will Be Blood, The Big Lebowski, Casino, Snatch, The Incredibles, Night On Earth, Young Frankenstein. Spirited Away, A Woman Under The Influence, The Bicycle Thief, Sweeny Todd, Leon, Seven, Glengarry Glenross, Ghostdog: Way of The Samurai, Ran, Seven Samurai, Silver Streak. Harold and Maude. Blazing Saddles.

Music: Miles Davis, John Coltrane, Led Zepplin, Jill Scott, Q tip, Stevie Wonder, Rage Against The Machine, Puccini, Biggie Smalls, Eryka Badu, Steely Dan, The Beatles, Johnny Cash, Busta Rhymes,Hendrix, Chaka, Al Green, Phillip Glass, Minnie Ripperton, Marvin Gaye, Meshell N'Dgeocello, Van Halen,Nixon In China.

TV: Mad Men, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Louie, Archer, Sopranos, The Wire, Tosh.0, Deadwood(the best ever!), Twilight Zone, Family Guy, Boondocks, Chapelle show.

I am a foodie and enjoy being adventurous. Japanese, Mexican, Korean, Ethiopean, Indian, Thai, or Brazilian. If you can hang with blowfish, sea urchin, foie gras, or spicy cod fish roe, then you're in my camp. Plus, I have a spicy food fetish. If there's no heat, you're puttin' me to sleep. Then pour me a Lambrusco, Montepulciano, Manhattan, or Lagavullin 16.
The six things I could never do without
Coffee, Krav Maga, the INSANITY workout(Yes, I love it!!),my passport, my Iphone while on the subway(seriously, enough with the mariachi bands already!), John Coltrane's A Love Supreme.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where I can go take a good salsa/ballroom class.
On a typical Friday night I am
Going to the movies, or seeing some live music, or out with friends looking for trouble. Chilling at home with some red wine and the soothing voice of Billy Holiday, or Ella.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I was a vegetarian for thirteen years. But, could never live that life again. Sorry, but I love eating other animals now. I'm actually in pursuit of the best burger in NYC. Any suggestions?
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 29–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Prefer to grab coffee and meet for a friendly chat
rather than be pen pals.

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