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22 Cary, NC Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 23–34
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:16pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Open relationship
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi, I'm Rachel!

If you missed it, I might as well give you a heads up that I'm polyamorous, and I have a boyfriend. It's a nonissue for me, but I understand that some require monogamy.

I'm an NCSU grad doing a crappy job of being an adult.

I don't really have me figured out. All the personality tests label me as an analytical Type A, and I can't argue that. I tend to be seriously assertive and untrusting until I get to know you. Well, I'm seriously assertive all the time. Which means you can't be a wimp, because I'll unintentionally walk all over you and that will just make both of us sad.

I have a passion for technology and consider myself to be relatively innovative as a young professional. I try to be passionate about life, and enjoy being around people that are also passionate about things and people. I'm not very "ladylike", and tend to be quite opinionated and outspoken in a (hopefully) not obnoxious way.

Romantically, I tend to be most compatible with confident and intelligent men that tend to be a bit older than me. I love learning new things, specifically with regard to software development from a business perspective and general business development and strategy. I need some cool hobbies, 'cause all of that is probably pretty lame.

I'm not high maintenance: all I need is honesty, care, respect, and compatibility. Okay, maybe that's a lot, after all. Not interested in hookups.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Attempting to find myself, or some hippy shit like that.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
using proper spelling and grammar in text messages, surprising the world with my maturity and fascinating wit, sarcasm, procrastinating, analyzing business objectives and translating them into tangible plans of work to maximize return on investment, and using corporate lingo to make myself sound more exciting than I really am.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My laugh. Apparently it's 'unique.'
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Reading a Ruby programming book

TV: Game of Thrones, Silicon Valley, OITNB

Music: I love Pandora. Fav stations include Rap Strength Training Radio and Electronic for Studying Radio. Also Taylor Swift. Who doesn't like TSwift?!

Foods: BBQ (Eastern NC, of course), Mexican, Indian, American, Italian, Asian, all the -an's! Also Chipotle. Oh, Chipotle.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good Friends
The ability to learn
Seltzer water
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The present, and on rare occasions, the future.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Laying on my couch reading a book, or out with friends.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...we have a high match percentage.'re not religious. don't have kids. have the ability to use good spelling and grammar.'re interesting and have more to say than "hey, what's up?" have cool hobbies that I can learn. read my profile and am aware that I'm in a polyamorous relationship and are cool with that.

Also, I hate pet names. This is inclusive of "hey, girl" and "hey, beautiful". I'm not trying to come off as a bitch, I just literally shudder when I'm referred to as something other than my name. I realize you're just trying to be nice, but it's degrading my entity to the sum of my physical components and I really am not a fan of that... -end feminist rant-

Message Highlights
I guess I have to give them props for trying? Not the best first impressions. Before you send me the all-too-common "oh my gosh, did people actually send you those?" message, the answer is yes.

"I would love to help you move on with your life, one orgasm at a time."
"I wanna do bad things to you."
"U r very good looking. U like new foods."
"ok obvious: your good looking / surprise: i like girls feet"
"I'm actually looking for a a sugar daddy type thing."
"$$ I am a lot of fun and I can be quite generous $$ even it it is no strings? $$"
"Not a state fan but I will still bone you. What night is good for you?"
"I think your [sic] hot as hell i want to steal from any guy ur talking to"
"I bet that pussy is so tight"
"I like smart girl. They are awesome"
"I would battle a pack of wild mountain lions inside of a handicapped stall at a local Taco Bell with my hands zip-tied behind my back and a shake weight super-glued to my forehead as my only weapon just to get a chance to share a freshly baked pizza with you over Skype with a dial up connection."