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22 F Cary, NC

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:55pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm pretty awful at responding to messages on here. A combination of interesting intro message, match percentage, physical attraction, and my personal schedule will/will not garner you a response. I'm not conceited and it's not personal, I just prefer to not waste each other's time.

NCSU grad doing a crappy job of being an adult. Inspired by Tinder to give this a go again. (Because Tinder sucks, and as a true type-A I need a compatibility metric to judge your level of stupidity or ideally, lack thereof.)

I am extremely indecisive, yet I'm a planner. I'm deathly afraid of commitment, but I'm bad at doing casual. I know I'm an oxymoron; I can't really help you figure me out because I haven't really figured me out.

Heads up, I'm in an open relationship.
Polyamory (from Greek πολύ poly, "many, several", and Latin amor, "love") is the practice, desire, or acceptance of having more than one intimate relationship at a time with the knowledge and consent of everyone involved. Polyamory, often abbreviated as poly, is often described as "consensual, ethical, and responsible non-monogamy."

Message Highlights
I guess I have to give them props for trying? Not the best first impressions. Before you send me the all-too-common "oh my gosh, did people actually send you those?" message, the answer is yes.

"I would love to help you move on with your life, one orgasm at a time."
"I wanna do bad things to you."
"U r very good looking. U like new foods."
"ok obvious: your good looking / surprise: i like girls feet"
"I'm actually looking for a a sugar daddy type thing."
"$$ I am a lot of fun and I can be quite generous $$ even it it is no strings? $$"
"Not a state fan but I will still bone you. What night is good for you?"
"I think your [sic] hot as hell i want to steal from any guy ur talking to"
"I bet that pussy is so tight"
"I like smart girl. They are awesome"
"I would battle a pack of wild mountain lions inside of a handicapped stall at a local Taco Bell with my hands zip-tied behind my back and a shake weight super-glued to my forehead as my only weapon just to get a chance to share a freshly baked pizza with you over Skype with a dial up connection."

Also, I hate pet names. This is inclusive of "hey, girl" and "hey, beautiful". I'm not trying to come off as a bitch, I just literally shudder when I'm referred to as something other than my name (which is Rachel, by the way). I realize you're just trying to be nice, but it's degrading my entity to the sum of my physical components and I really am not a fan of that.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Waiting tables and looking for a big girl job. Don't judge me. I totally have an adorable engineering degree I wink at from across the room from time to time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
using proper spelling and grammar in text messages
surprising the world with my maturity and fascinating wit
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My laugh. Apparently it's 'unique.'
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Book: Brave New World by Aldous Huxley (I don't have much time to read for pleasure.)

TV: Game of Thrones, Silicon Valley, OITNB

Music: I love Pandora. Fav stations include Rap Strength Training Radio and Electronic for Studying Radio.

Foods: BBQ (Eastern NC, of course), Mexican, Indian, American, Italian, Asian, all the -an's! Also Chipotle. Oh, Chipotle.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Cell Phone
Social Media
Indian Food
Good Friends
Burt's Bees
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
being productive. At least I think about it, right?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
downtown with a beer in hand. Probably a hefeweizen. If I'm feeling really crazy, it might even be a vodka redbull.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 24–34
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...we have a high match percentage.'re not religious. don't have kids. have the ability to use good spelling and grammar.'re interesting and have more to say than "hey, what's up?"'re interesting and have cool hobbies that I can learn. read my profile and am aware that I'm in an open relationship and are cool with that.

I'm really not as scary as my "what not to do" profile makes me sound, promise. :) Ya'll just test my patience sometimes. ;)