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rhl53

61 San Francisco, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 48–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:50pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Education
Graduated from med school
Job
Medicine
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
"Two heads are better than one ... for getting lost, planning, and just about anything in life". Looking for my counterpart for outdoor travel adventures and navigating thru the rest of life. Must know which way is North - not necessarily up - and not run faster than me with a bear in hot pursuit ( kidding).
I have traveled extensively and have been fortunate to have lived in various parts of Europe, Middle East, New Zealand and even visited the Antarctica. I have eclectic tastes and tend to be an “out of the box” type of thinker. As a MB type, I would be an E/INFJ-– I’m intuitive, care about people, and believe in humanity I believe in the "one earth, one people" concept and European view of "working to live" vs US view of "living to work"! I blend in well with most situations-- I'm house trained and you can take me out! (I know, it sounds like I'm talking about my dog!) I tend to do the "off the beaten path" type of trips but I am starting to learn to appreciate the "tour guide/camera over the neck" types also-- it's a wonder what maturity (i.e., old age) will do for you!
I’m not into sports but I do appreciate talent. I choose
indie/foreign films over the Hollywood types. I love sushi and rock n roll, but not together. I’m politically and religiously neutral most of the time – but don’t get me started!
I am actually very grateful and feel blessed (not in the religious
way) that I have been able to be where and what I am today. I value communication, commitment, compromise in a relationship and the core values of honesty, integrity, and compassion in living an authentic life! I've lived on the block most people have "been around" and rarely walked away from "fighting the good fight"!
I am looking for the un/usual - joy of life and sense of self. Baggage even the airline type should be limited. Melodrama should be on the screen/TV - where it can be turned off! Everything else is negotiable! I presently split my time between Cupertino and San Francisco ( still have a house in the Outer Sunset/Ocean Beach area) and haven't decide which to call home?? You could be the deciding factor!

9/2014 update - I have now officially moved back to SF. no more long commutes to Cupertino! 8~)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Often at odds with authority, bruised and battered after "fighting the good fight"! Trying to live with integrity and still believe in the goodness in people! Also more recently, thinking how great it would be to be labeled an "expat" in Europe! 8~}
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Everything and nothing! The hardest is being good at nothing - it's very elusive. It'll take a lot of practice and effort but for now, I'll give it a try! Living the "authentic life" and also being upfront with people and intuitive!
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile and presence! Or as above - more recently, maybe my "absence" ! 8~}
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Blink; six sigma; essentials of acupuncture;Shambhala - sacred path of the warrior
Movies: indie films, sci-fi; peter weir; year of living dangerously; The King and I; Blade Runner
Music: 60's classics, rock n roll
Food: sushi, MREs (only kidding!)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Hard to answer since I'm not sure there's anything that truly fits
into that category at present. You could top the list!
The "things" that I value however - passion and compassion, needless to say - kindness, integrity, authenticity, and may be - intuition/empathy ( could be a curse though!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
our crazy world and paradigm shifts! how do we get our humanity back! and where will I go next on my trip (and more recently, should I come back)!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Recently no real typical Friday nights or even days for that matter! Like they say - I'll tell you later once I get some normalcy back!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
that I am a product of our society and all too human! Even though I am an ABC, I'm more of an A than a C
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I haven't offended you or scared you away and you are kind and have compassion for all living things! And as above again - you might like living in another country on a part time basis! 8~}

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