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rhl53

60 / M / Straight / Single

San Francisco, California

His Details

Last Online
Today – 12:23am
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I'm one of those "practical idealist" types! I know, somewhat of an oxymoron, but it probably defines me best - a oncomformist. I like what I do most of the time but the job does not define me. I'm good at what I do and what I do does make a
difference! I have eclectic tastes and tend to be an “out of the
box” type of thinker. As a MB type, I would be an INFJ-– I’m
intuitive, care about people, believe in humanity, and the “one earth, one people” concept. Life sometimes is not fair, but people can always be! I love to travel and I have been fortunate enough to do so, from backpacking locally in the Sierras to foreign shores and even the Antarctica. I appreciate the people and culture but hate the political system that seems to subvert the collective will of the masses. I blend in well with most situations-- I'm house trained and you can take me out! (I know, it sounds like I'm talking about my dog!) I tend to do the "off the beaten path" type of trips but I am starting to learn to appreciate the "tour guide/camera over the neck" types also-- it's a wonder what maturity (i.e., old age) will do for you!
I’m not into sports but I do appreciate talent. I choose
indie/foreign films over the Hollywood types. I love sushi and rock n roll, but not together. I’m politically and religiously neutral most of the time – but don’t get me started!
I am actually very grateful and feel blessed (not in the religious
way) that I have been able to be where and what I am today. I would love to share my life with someone who has a
sense of self and a good moral compass (for our travels! i.e.,
old-fashioned values, not religious righteousness.)!
As you may surmise by now, I don't take myself seriously and you are likewise. Everything is negotiable. The only thing we should take seriously is our relationship!
What I’m doing with my life
trying to live with integrity and still believe in the goodness in people!
I’m really good at
everything and nothing! The hardest is being good at nothing - it's very elusive. It'll take a lot of practice and effort but for now, I'll give it a try! Also being upfront with people and intuitive!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Blink; six sigma; essentials of acupuncture;Shambhala - sacred path of the warrior
Movies: indie films, sci-fi; peter weir; year of living dangerously; The King and I; Blade Runner
Music: 60's classics, rock n roll
Food: sushi, MREs (only kidding!)
The six things I could never do without
Hard to answer since I'm not sure there's anything that truly fits
into that category at present. You could top the list!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
our crazy world and paradigm shifts! how do we get our humanity back! and where will I go next on my trip!
On a typical Friday night I am
Recently no real typical Friday nights or even days for that matter! Like they say - I'll tell you later once I get some normalcy back!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
that I am a product of our society and all too human!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 50–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
I haven't offended you or scared you away and you are kind and have compassion for all living things!