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rhubyviolet

33 F Pittsburgh, PA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:21am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly vegan
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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Honest. Maybe too genuine for my own good. I try to find a nice balance between optimism and realism.

I love being outside, the smell of dirt, Lake Erie, cooking over campfires, wading in steams, walking across bridges, canoeing, bike rides through cemeteries, exploring new cities, silent films with live musical accompaniment, thyme, yard sales, photography, collecting rocks, creating new recipes, scarves, yoga, bourbon, San Francisco, reading in parks, waffles, old buildings, etc.
What I’m doing with my life
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Teaching kids how to be a good friend, talk about their feelings, and not piss their pants. I'm hoping to do this on more individual, one-on-one basis in the near future, minus the potty training garbage.
I’m really good at
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listening.

to music.

and people.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like to read, sometimes I finish books.

Some of my favorite writers:

Short Stories: Raymond Carver, Flannery O'Connor, George Saunders
Comics/Graphic Novels: Love and Rockets, Hey, Wait... and everything else by Jason, Lilli Carré, Jeff Lemire, Matt Kindt, Kevin Huizenga
Poetry: Walt Whitman, Anne Carson, H.D., Jack Gilbert, Larry Levis

TV: Freaks and Geeks, The Wire, Alfred Hitchcock Presents, The Office (British), Batman the Animated Series, Pete and Pete

Movies: Anything Hitchcock, Herzog, Miyazaki, or either of the Andersons. Singin' in the Rain, All the Real Girls, Carnival of Souls, Sans Soleil, Busby Berkeley dance sequences, City Lights, Barton Fink, Jaws. I have a huge weakness for b-movies. I watch The Royal Tenenbaums every Thanksgiving. I suck at movie quotes.

Music: sad songs. joyful noises. all kind of sweet treats.
More specifically, Damien Jurado, Jason Molina, The Velvet Underground, Yo La Tengo, The Mountain Goats, Laura Gibson, Gillian Welch, DM Stith, The Ramones, The Ronettes, old timey ladies singing the blues.

Food: Mostly vegan, mostly healthy, whole foods but I love sweet and savory treats. I love plums, raspberries, rooibos tea, lavender, artichokes, tomatoes, basil, rhubarb, kale, samosas, soups, and pies. I hate onions.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
immersion blender
camera
water bottle
a book in my bag
pen and journal
friends
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 26–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating