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30 M Brooklyn, NY

My Details

Last Online
Sep 12, 2013
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
English, Dutch, German (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm torn between writing something that actually summarizes who I am -in so far as that is possible- and writing something that I think you'd wanna read. I guess that in itself summarizes who I am quite well..
My stats:
I was born and raised in Amsterdam, where I also went to college. After getting a degree in sociology I decided to change it up and pursue music and I went to a conservatory in the Netherlands. After two years there I got a bit bored and transferred to Berklee, in Boston. Spent almost three years there, and then moved to Brooklyn a little over a year ago.
I still go back and forth between NYC and Amsterdam a lot, and even though I think New York is a great city, I don't see myself growing old on this side of the Atlantic.
I’m really good at
solving problems, eating fast, making people feel safe, making people feel stupid, analyzing people, overthinking straightforward situations.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
- I'm always so tempted to just watch a movie or a show online that reading has taken a serious beating, but I'm trying to catch up on all the classics you would have had to read in high school. I recently read Lord of the Flies and thought it was amazing. My favorite book is The Rules of Attraction, and I love a lot of Dutch books you wouldn't know.
- Leaving Las Vegas/Pulp Fiction/I Am Sam/No Country For Old Men/so many good ones! Anything with good acting in it and good dialogue, I love. I just saw Argo and it blew my mind.
- The Wire is the best show ever/I watch a lot of shows but I should stop there.
- Beach Boys/Beatles/Ben Folds/Burt Bacharach/Aretha Franklin/Hall&Oates/Ryan Adams/ lots of stuff, although in my free time I sometimes need a little break from music
- food is probably the best thing in life. That and coffee (I recently got a Nespresso machine and my quality of life has improved drastically)
The six things I could never do without
shows on my laptop
flights to amsterdam
unlimited sake at the japanese place around the corner
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how I can stop myself from thinking all the time
On a typical Friday night I am
doing the same as any other night, really. Every night is Friday night! (and every night is Monday night, unfortunately).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
sometimes I drink too much and girls take advantage of me
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–29
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
I have come to realize that I really don't know what kind of girl I'm looking for. If you think you might know something I don't, let me know