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28 M Port Chester, NY

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Last Online
Today – 6:03pm
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Feelings toward life:

* Balanced
* Simple and practical
* Prefers peace and harmony
* Laid back but aggressive when need be
* Quiet but can be the life of the party
* Not a materialistic person (unless it is music related) :)
* Still living by the Boy Scout Oath and Law
* An avid observer and listener
* Able to 'read' people to some extent
* Lonely sometimes
* Firm about morals/ethics
* Particular about doing specific tasks
* Self disciplined
* A 50's kind of guy
* A musician at heart and will always be
* Leader and follower
* Loyal and honest
* Believer in a higher being
* An avid blood/platelet donor
* A big Jim Carrey fan
* Face palm on my 'personality' tab. Yeah it says I'm more sex-driven and kinky. So what? That's not me all the time ;)

What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.

I play percussion for a country rock artist (Jessica Lynn). We have performed at NAMM in Anaheim and Nashville. This summer we did a national tour visiting the west and northern plains opening for many great country artists. We have a PBS special airing nation wide and are currently producing a full stage production show and a new TV special with new songs for this September.

I currently play percussion and sing with Armelle & The Handjive Tribe. We play and sing original and traditional kids songs with a focus on multiple languages, culture, and style.

I work with percussion ensembles, marching bands and drum lines. I have taught in NY and CT. I have worked and arranged for percussion at other schools as well. I am one of the founding members of a drum and bugle corps, The Saints Brigade in Port Chester, NY.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
*Making sound effects

*Public Speaking, presentations, interviews




*Remaining calm in dramatic or aggressive situations

*Making others laugh at my own expense

*Drumming or any percussive skills

*Proper Etiquette

*Timing of "That's what she said" jokes
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably that I am tall and that I look younger than I actually am! Hah, what guy actually admits that? (Girls, guys might not admit it, but they think about their age and how they look too).

My etiquette. I believe in manners, respect, chivalry, and chivery.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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In fact I think a great date would be a nice reading/discussion over tea somewhere. I'll read anything and I'll read it fast! I do enjoy going to libraries (I'll even sit on the floor in the aisles just reading random books) and prefer a paper book to an e-reader.

The few that I really like are The Devil Wears Prada, Forrest Gump, August Rush, Contact, Seven Pounds, The Shawshank Redemption, Beerfest and The Pursuit of Happyness. I really love watching the Marx Brothers as well. Classic and true comedy and they were extremely talented musicians as well. I really love IMAX film. Definitely worth the extra $ to see at the theater.

I really only listen to 94.7 Nash FM in my car. I cannot stop listening to country. I really like The Band Perry, Zach Brown Band, Dierks Bentley, and Luke Bryan. How can I forget...Jessica Lynn?! Two Steps From Hell! Please check them out if you have never heard of them...actually, if you have been to the movie theater, you already have. Muse, Animals as Leaders, a lot of progressive rock, metal, Jamiroquai, Daft Punk, Frank Sinatra, Classical - Post Romantic Composers (too many to name), Air Force Concert/Jazz ensembles, Raymond Scott Quintette and I am a huge John Williams, Danny Elfman, Hans Zimmer, Deadmau5, Zedd, David Guetta, Tiesto.

I enjoy Big Bang Theory, Bones, House, Tosh.O, Louie, Family Guy, and Archer. My new favorite fix though is another FX goodie. Fargo! I never saw the movie but I really like this adaptation for a television series. Also, the casting was quite creative. I also really like Barefoot Contessa with Ina Garten, Chopped, and Diners, Drive-ins & Dives on the Food Network.

Ok, even if it's like one date or something, who wants to make this with me?
I love lasagna and mixing in Buffalo Chicken?! I'm gonna faint.
My favorite food is chicken riggies from my hometown in Utica, NY. It's only native to the area. Also half moon cookies. Which is where they were made famous. Probably known to you as black and whites...which are garbage. I should include tomatoe pie and greens. If you want, you can try all of these on a road trip with me.

Favorite car: Shelby Super Snake and 1969 Shelby GT500. OMG I'm wet! Wait...can guys get wet? Let me check...yes.

Favorite states: Texas, Montana

Favorite colognes: Thallium, Joop, Hugo Boss #6 Bottled, A*Men, Givenchy Pi.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My drums/percussion
My mental/physical health
My eyes/ears
My ability to make people laugh
My reproductive capabilities
My hands

People get too judgmental regarding these but I think this was asked to really see how creative people get with their answers. I mean, the 'stock' answers are dull so anything other than 'stock' answers are fun to read.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.

Taking walks/hiking, Traveling, A new job, Dreams, Going back to school for my masters, Tap/ballroom dancing, Martial arts, Ventriloquism, Wilderness Survival, Cruise ships, Learning the ukulele, Finding a better apartment, Going to IKEA, What life would be like after winning the Powerball jackpot, Why Okcupid gives me high percentage matches with 'gingers', kissing with flavored lip balm, Adrenaline/first instincts amidst danger, when my next Thanksgiving birthday will be (when I'm 29...not sure for the next one...nevermind...November 27th 2014, 2025, 2031, 2036, 2042, 2053, 2059, 2064, 2070, 2081, 2087, 2092, 2098 - See more at:

If I could study something else in school and follow a different career path it would either be something along the lines of graphic arts and design or computer data/hacking.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually practicing EVERY week with the drum corps 8-10pm. After next week, Friday nights will now be open!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I really love getting my hair brushed or cut.

I like to vacuum and iron.

Tall girls really make me happy! I like someone I can see 'eye to eye' with! I have a liking for short girls too.

I have been known to make a late night Taco Bell run. It's dangerous having one being built within walking distance to me.

I have some wedding ceremony music already picked out. Debussy and Faure.

I was going to do adult films but then changed my mind
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
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you like cats.

you like to hold hands in public.

you think you can play paradiddles faster than me.

you absolutely love roller coasters or other thrill rides.

you have an accent. Any European or middle Eastern are a +!

you thought my profile provided some great insight into who I am.

you noticed that each one of these lines contained more 'characters'!

you actually took the time out (only need 5 min) to read through my whole profile!