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28 M Port Chester, NY

I’m looking for

  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 23–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:50am
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Feelings toward life:

*Can always find humor somewhere
* Balanced
* Simple and practical
* Prefers peace and harmony
* Laid back but aggressive when need be
* Quiet but can be the life of the party
* Not a materialistic person (unless it is music related)
* Still living by the Boy Scout Oath and Law
* An avid observer and listener
* Able to 'read' people to some extent
* Lonely sometimes
* Firm about morals/ethics
* Particular about doing specific tasks
* Self disciplined
* A 50's kind of guy
* A musician at heart and will always be
* Leader and follower
* Loyal and honest
* Believer in a higher being
* An avid blood/platelet donor
* A big Jim Carrey fan

What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.

I play percussion for a country artist (Jessica Lynn). We have performed at NAMM in Anaheim and Nashville. This summer we played a national tour visiting the western and northern US opening for many great country stars such as Luke Bryan, Chase Rice, Lady Antebellum, Montgomery Gentry, and others. We have a PBS special airing nation wide and are currently producing a full stage production show and a new PBS TV special benefiting 'United for the Troops' with new songs and surprises this September.

I currently play percussion and sing with Armelle & The Handjive Tribe. We play and sing original and traditional kids songs with a focus on multiple languages, culture, and style.

I teach private music lessons and strip on the weekends. Signed up to become a gigolo because I can really sing that song well in karaoke. Just kidding about the music lessons.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
*Making sound effects

*Public Speaking, presentations, interviews




*Remaining calm in dramatic or aggressive situations

*Making others laugh at my own expense

*Drumming or any percussive skills

*Proper Etiquette

*Timing of "That's what she said" jokes
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Lately, "ohhhhh man have you lost weight?" Why is everything always about weight? I never counter with "Gee, you freakin' fat!" maybe I should.

Probably that I am tall and that I look younger than my real age. I get upset sometimes when I am not asked for ID.

My etiquette. I believe in manners, respect, chivalry, and chivery.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Date Ideas:
1) I think a great date would be a nice reading/discussion over tea somewhere. I enjoy going to libraries (I'll even sit on the floor in the aisles just reading random books) and prefer a paper book to an e-reader.
2) Have always wanted to get really dressed up (like Tuxedo and gown) and do something 'normal' but see how people react to very elegantly dressed people.

The Devil Wears Prada
Forrest Gump
August Rush
Seven Pounds
The Shawshank Redemption
The Pursuit of Happyness
Pulp Fiction
I really enjoy the Marx Brothers as well. Classic and true comedy and they were also extremely talented musicians. I love anything in IMAX. Definitely worth the extra $ to see at the theater.

I really only listen to 94.7 Nash FM in my car. I cannot stop listening to country. I really like The Band Perry, Zach Brown Band, Dierks Bentley, and Luke Bryan. How can I forget...Jessica Lynn?! Two Steps From Hell! Please check them out if you have never heard of them...actually, if you have been to the movie theater, you already have. Muse, Animals as Leaders, a lot of progressive rock, metal, Jamiroquai, Daft Punk, Frank Sinatra, Classical - Post Romantic Composers (too many to name), Air Force Concert/Jazz ensembles, Raymond Scott Quintette and I am a huge fan of John Williams, Danny Elfman, Hans Zimmer, Deadmau5, Zedd, David Guetta, and Tiesto.

I enjoy Big Bang Theory, Bones, House, Tosh.O, Louie, Family Guy, and Archer. My new favorite fix though is another FX goodie. Fargo! I never saw the movie but I really like this adaptation for a television series. Also, the casting was quite creative. I also really like Barefoot Contessa with Ina Garten, Chopped, and Diners, Drive-ins & Dives on the Food Network.

Ok, even if it's like one date or something, who wants to make this with me?
I love lasagna and mixing in Buffalo Chicken?! I'm gonna faint.
My favorite food is vodka chicken riggies from my hometown in Utica, NY. It is an Italian dish and only native to the area. Also, half moon cookies which is where they were originally made. Probably known to you as black and whites (which are garbage). I should include tomatoe pie, greens, and Saranac Beer/Soda. If you want, you can try all of these on a road trip with me.

Favorite car: Shelby Super Snake and 1969 Shelby GT500. OMG I'm wet! Wait...can guys get wet? Let me check...yes.

Favorite states: Texas, Montana

Favorite colognes: Thallium, Joop, Hugo Boss #6, A*Men, Givenchy Pi.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My drums/percussion
My mental/physical health
My eyes/ears
My ability to make people laugh
My reproductive capabilities
My hands

I like to read the creative things people write here.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.

Taking walks/hiking, Traveling, A new job, Dreams, Going back to school for my masters, Why you need to send 15 messages to get one reply back on OkC, Tap/ballroom dancing, Martial arts, Ventriloquism, Wilderness Survival, Cruise ships, Learning the ukulele, Finding a better apartment, Why some of my female friends enjoy talking about farting, Going to IKEA, How I would build my own music school and theater after winning the Powerball jackpot, Kissing with flavored lip balm, Adrenaline/first instincts amidst danger, When my next Thanksgiving birthday will be (when I'm 29...November 27th 2014, 2025, 2031, 2036, 2042, 2053, 2059, 2064, 2070, 2081, 2087, 2092, 2098 - See more at:

If I could study something else in school and follow a different career path it would either be something along the lines of graphic arts and design.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually practicing EVERY week at the Carver Center in Port Chester 8-10pm. Right now until October I have Friday nights off! Yay.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I really love getting my hair brushed or cut.

I like to vacuum and iron.

Been to 43 out of the 50 United States.

For the love of... I just really want to play Cards Against Humanity and I haven't yet :(

Tall girls really make me happy! I like someone I can see 'eye to eye' with!

I have some music I'd like to have in (our?) wedding. Debussy and Faure.

I finally just saw Frozen (and loved it) teehee :)

I was going to do adult films but then changed my mind
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you like cats.

you like to hold hands in public.

you think you can play paradiddles faster than me.

you absolutely love roller coasters or other thrill rides.

you have an accent. Any European or middle Eastern are a +!

you thought my profile provided some great insight into who I am.

you noticed that each one of these lines contained more 'characters'!

you actually took the time out (only need 5 min) to read through my whole profile!