I'm not a poly person... but that doesn't mean I'm judging. It's just not my thing.
I admire intelligence, amazing conversation, adventure, laughing, making crazy, passionate love & enjoying life. I believe I'm a good friend and a dependable sort who will look out for my peeps, cheerleading my brothers and sisters... while also calling them on their shit haha (expecting them to do the same for me, of course).
I suppose I'm looking for a cool & cute buddy, a partner in crime (as the saying goes), a lover, a best friend, a shoulder, an ear, a voice. These things are the most desirable to me.
For a first date, I propose that we keep it simple. Coffee and conversation are my preference.
If we like each other so much that we have to spend more time together, we'll know it... and any ongoing plans can reflect that (shows, dinner, events etc).