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My self-summary
I'm a really calm and thoughtful person. The things that excite me are novel ideas, absurd situations, and intellectual stimulation. My DNA runs introverted and nerdy but socially aware. This is balanced by my desire go out and let things get weird sometimes. Sense of humor tends toward straight faced ridiculousness.

I'm really looking for someone cool so that we can chill and be cool together. Whenever that's get boring we would go out and do something crazy and then go back to being chill.

I like both going out and staying in depending on my mood. I'm mostly comfortable with both but I'll need to recharge if I spend too much time socializing.

I work in the tech industry, please don't hold it against me.

The most important thing when meeting someone (besides raw attraction) for me is that I can hold a conversation with them. I love to listen and have a sympathetic ear. I read a lot of internet and have a lot of (mostly) informed opinions about just about anything. I very much want to meet someone who will talk nerdy to me.

I'm always up for anything at little or no notice. Call me at 5 am and say Mexico and I'll be down.

I will defy all expectations. Also, total cuddle slut and sex positive.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to think of an awesome and clever user name.
I’m really good at
Knowing a little bit about everything. Making ridiculously absurd nonsensical analogies with a straight face. Knowing lots of trivia and dredging up facts I read once ten years ago. Lifting heavy things.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I try to read a little bit of everything and my kindle never leaves my side. I just wish it could do comic books. I have a special place in my heart for dark fantasy. A sample of the things I like:

Joe Abercrombie, The Prince of Nothing, Transmetropolitan, Akira, Blankets, Blade of the Immortal, Game of Thrones, Richard Morgen, Bridge of Birds, Y:The Last Man, Gene Wolfe, Sleeper, Dhalgren, Gantz, The Selfish Gene.

I really prefer movies and TV as a shared experience with others.


Spirited Away is my favorite movie but I typically like dark and intellectually satisfying films. Or you stuff where things blow up good.

Examples: OldBoy and anything else by Chan-wook Park, Attack the Gas Station, A bittersweet life, District 9, Anything by the Coen brothers, Kiss Kiss Bang Bang, The American Astronaut, Black Dynamite, and Your Mom.


I watch hardly any television anymore. Less and less every year.

Breaking Bad, The Walking Dead, Game of Thrones, The Wire, DeadWood, Arrested Development, Trailer Park Boys, Generation Kill.


Dead Man's Bones, Titanium Sporkastra, Sleigh Bells, Broken Bells, Surfer Blood, Wolf Parade, Beirut, Bon Iver, The National, Okkervil River, The Album Leaf, Why?, Tapes 'n Tapes, Deltron 3030, Firewater, The Arcade Fire, The Black Keys, Spoon, Elvis Perkins, Bon Iver, Amon Tobin, DJ Shadow, Local Natives, Girl Talk, Wax Tailor, Firewater, Band of Horses. This list could go on forever. Everyone knows some awesome band you've never heard of.


Xenoblade, Bloodborne and Dark Souls, The Witcher, Planescape: Torment, Fallout, Ico and Shadow of the Colossus, Yakuza. Anything I can play couch co-op with my friend. I have a steam sale and backlog problem.
The six things I could never do without
Friends, books, music, laughter, food, hyperbole
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The patriarchy and feminism and how to be a better ally.
What makes for a successfully relationship.
The nature of human consciousness and how much if any control we have over our own actions.
How any given organization eventually tends to lose touch with the humanity that runs it.
How most of the good in the world is accomplished by someone rolling up their sleeves and giving a shit in the face of apathy.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Not really private but I find the whole dating process freaks me out. It's like the worst possible job interview ever. Its hard for me to relax and be the charming offbeat weirdo I secretly am.
You should message me if
If you are a bit of a weirdo and two steps off from societies rhythm but blend in well you've found fellow soul.
You want to cuddle while watching game of thrones.
You want an exercise buddy.
You want to learn to snowboard with me or you just want to take me snowboarding.
You like to geek out and share whatever you love most.
I need an adventure buddy to take day trips with and get in trouble.

Just to note, I'm not really interested in an endless stream of emails back and forth. I would much rather meet up quickly and see how things go. However, given what I know women have to put up with on this site I have no issues with some dialog to establish comfort.