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31 F Woodside, NY

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 26–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Other, and laughing about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Why hello there stranger.

Los Angeles, born and raised. I grew up in a pool, miss burritos like something serious, and drive like a rock star.

Here is the place in the profile where people usually list all the places they have been. What can I say? I have been places, drove across the country twice, lived in the San Francisco Bay Area for a few years, and spent six months in Vermont for a teaching residency.

I've been in the Big Bad Apple almost 7 years doing things like abusing my Seamless account and trying to stay calm when surrounded by tourists on 5th Ave.

I am a theater artist. I write plays and sometimes act. I pay the bills by running all things administration at a political nonprofit and doing marketing for a small poetry press.

In my dream world I would be paying my bills teaching or working for an organization that serves veterans.

And that is me in a comfortably sized nutshell.

I see you question #2...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Looking for adventure.

So, I have been on a mission to do everything I rarely or never do. Last minute day trips, square dancing, training for runs, going to comedy clubs, joining a book club, taking flamenco classes, the list keeps growing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Knowing the weather forecast for the next five days and looking good holding a Jack and Coke when I karaoke.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hold on. Taking a poll...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
There are many. Why take the time to list?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A pilot pen in my bag
"Try a Little Tenderness" after bad days
Iced coffee in the summer, hot coffee in the winter
Phone calls with the family back home
A kitchen with counter space
The news
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What do I have to do next?
What do I want for lunch?
Am I doing enough?
Will the news get better anytime soon?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If I am not trapped in a rehearsal room with very small windows, I am out with friends, pouring stories over drinks and/or seeing a live performance of some kind.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I miss my family a lot. Still glad I live on the East Coast but missing the little things is harder than I thought it would be.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You appreciate hardworking, creative types?
You want to meet in real life?
You want to swap OkCupid horror stories?
You like to talk in full, grammatically correct sentences?

Send me a line!

Regardless, good luck out there. May you find what you're looking for soon.