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ricvans

35 M Seattle, WA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 29–49
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:03pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Portuguese (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm in a long-term open relationship with my wife and partner of nearly 11 years. I'm sure that's strange for many of you, but it suits us quite nicely. I believe in ethical non-monogamy and am looking for an amazing passionate friendship...not a casual hook-up.

I grew up on the beaches of San Diego and moved to Seattle about 8 years ago. To pay the bills I have a sweet desk job in a cubicle (without a view) and a few big-ass computer screens. I sometimes bring my lunch to work in a vintage Star Wars lunch box.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a civil engineer and my passion is figuring out how to move people and things quickly and efficiently. Weirdly...I think that things like bridges and tunnels are sexy. Riding busses and taking mass transit are even tourist destinations while I'm vacation! I've designed lots of the huge projects around the city, including that huge tunnel in downtown (yeah...the one that's stuck right now).

Besides work, I love being outdoors. I'm an avid runner and would love to run a marathon...someday.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making awkward situations comfortable with dumb jokes. I'm excellent at making people feel at ease. I'm good with my hands and can easily fix (or break) anything. I'm good at bringing up Onion articles and NPR stories in conversations. I'm amazing at making breakfast...and sometimes will make it at dinner just to be a little crazy. I also have a insane sense of direction and would be totally okay without a GPS if a zombie-apocalypse knocked out our cell towers.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
How can anyone answer this without sounding like a complete douche bag? Physically, I'm in good shape. I have broad shoulders, an infectious smile, bright blue eyes, and I sometimes sport a beard.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite Movies: The Matrix, Star Wars Series, Lord of Rings Series, Rushmore, Office Space, Pulp Fiction, Fight Club, Reservoir Dogs, Shawshank Redemption, Napoleon Dynamite, The Goonies, The Breakfast Club.

Favorite Music: Bloc Party, Bad Religion, Cave Singers, Daft Punk, Ghostland Observatory, Grand National, Grateful Dead, The Head and the Heart, Japandroids, The Killers, Kings of Leon, Led Zeppelin, Miike Snow, Muse, NOFX, The Ramones, The Smiths The Beastie Boys, STRFKR, We Were Promised Jetpack, The White Stripes, Wu-Tang Clan, Disclosure, Major Laser, Holy Ghost!, Poolside.

Favorite Books: Quiet: The Power of Introverts, 1984, The Catcher in the Rye, Les Miserables, Brave New World, A Game of Thrones, LOTR, The Walking Dead (graphic novels), Animal Farm, The Evolution of God, Freakonomics, The Post-American World, Opening Up.

Favorite TV Shows: Breaking Bad, The Walking Dead, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Arrested Development, Portlandia, SNL, Shameless, Veep.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. The 90's hip hop Pandora station. I can't decide if I truly like it or if it just makes me nostalgic for junior high/ high school.
2. Mexican food. I'm on an eternal quest for finding the perfect burrito in Seattle. You should message me if you'd like to join me.
3. The internet . How can you live without all of this wonderful information?
4. IPA's/single malt whiskeys. Although, I'm pretty sure I could live without these, they just make life fun.
5. The opportunity to meet and connect with someone new. I'm not sure I would want to go my whole life without another first kiss.
6. My kids, my partner, and my family.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Ideas, politics, books that I want to write, music, my family, and how different my life has become over the past 10 years.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Drinking a homebrew (just started brewing this summer), chilling with friends in my backyard, listening to live music in the city, or trying to find something decent to watch on Netflix.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm an open book and have the worst poker face (which means I'm a horrible liar)! Ask me anything.

I'm in a open marriage with my amazing partner (3roadsdiverged) and we have kids. We've been married for 9 years and together for 11 years. She is bi-sexual and has a very cool girlfriend.
You should message me if
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You want to laugh with someone over life's weird diversities and eccentricities.

You want to explore the city and try cool restaurants, see local music, chill in dive bars, or get some take-out and watch some Netflix.

You want a relationship that's light-hearted, fun, and spontaneous.

You are a smart, open-minded, sexy, and confident girl.