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riddmkidd

45 / M / Straight / Available

El Cerrito, California

His Details

Last Online
Today – 9:01am
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin, White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Gemini and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of two-year college
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
i'm happily involved with megan_suzanne so if you're looking for someone who's single or mongamous, thanks for visiting and i wish you much success!

i've been compared to a newfoundland puppy more often than i realize. i get to do what i love and have learned to live richly while not being rich. i've been rich and poor well off and homeless and shy and a showman and here and there. i love travelling and keeping busy. i have a wide social network with a career that enables me to celebrate being alive at all volume levels. i usually think of exactly what i want to say en route somewhere and have forgotten it by the time i get the chance to write it down.

i'm a musician, motorcyclist, forever trying to get a regular exercise plan going, bicyclist, burner, actor, teacher, comic, smart ass, wide-eyed, bashful, talkative, a night owl, worried about the mundane things, cynical, jaded, yet optimistic and have hope for the world.

i love observing and analying and forming theories to debunk or prove. i was raised by analysts so i like to talk about talking about things.

I am alert, talkative, and easily distracted.

I have also had a couple experiences in the past that have left me gunshy about making the first move for fear of offending someone. But it's something I am working on, much like all of life's lessons. that being said, if you want to hear from me, please say hello!
What I’m doing with my life
working on music, teaching it, performing it, trying to understand better ways to get what i hear in my head to sound like it coming back in through my ears;

i spend most of my time rushing about from place to place or activity to activity. my most productive day this week was recording guitar tracks, making mung bean soup, washing the truck (v6 not one of those jacked up gas hogs), and doing two loads of laundry. all at once. the rest of the day was spent catching up on tikibar tv episodes and watching the mighty boosh on youtube.

i'm not the most macho of males and was raised to believe that every one is equal. that being said i will open the door for you.

i'm not the best at describing myself but please fire away with curiousnesses.
I’m really good at
reading between the lines

believing what you say

seeing the other side of the coin

laughing during stressful times

diving in up to my neck in something

kissing cuddling smirking

looking evil until i open my mouth

quoting movie lines and catch phrases

comedic uh....timing.
The first things people usually notice about me
usually they hear me coming. then i've heard comments about my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
BOOKS-
Neil Gaiman & Terry Prachett: Good Omens; Christopher Moore: A Dirty Job; Inkheart

wouldn't ming picking up again: Ishmael and the Story of B by daniel quinn; Hyperion series; Tom Robbins; the princess bride; squee; Snowcrash by Neal Stephenson;

to dive into: The People's History of America; Lamb; The Historian;

movies: the 5th element; the emperor's new groove; walk hard; spinal tap (and most other christopher guest & co films like best in show, mighty wind, etc.); pan's labyrinth; tenacious D and the pick of destiny; formula 51; the occasional adventure romp like the italian job;

music: there's very little i don't like in music. i'm most often listening to peter tosh, somafm's groove salad or radioio's ambient channels, morcheeba, ooah, raydeus, anything from Pink Mammoth or Space Cowboys, lustral, fat boy slim, black crowes, james blunt, robert randolph, black eyed peas, blue october, et al.

food: i'm a sucker for sushi (preferably responsibly/consciously offered) and thai food. i'm almost vegetarian and prefer to make my own rather than eat out. however, i will save up for being bountiful, honoring, divine, abundant, accepting and cool. especially on birthdays.
The six things I could never do without
good food (preferably organic, but you know how it goes with bacon and burritos)

music

friends

love

nature

motorcycles
I spend a lot of time thinking about
money why we're here drumbeats and grooves what if...?
On a typical Friday night I am
playing music or supporting my friends doing the same. or laundry.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i let my self confidence hold me back even when it doesn't need to.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
you enjoy multiple topics in a single conversation and you find the exclamation "-ooh!!" an endearing segue

you understand and are comfortable with the fact that i am polyamorous. While i have a busy schedule I love how opportunities to interact present themselves as the universe sees fit.