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riddmkidd

46 Vallejo, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 35–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:02am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin, White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of two-year college
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
i'm happily involved with megan_suzanne so if you're looking for someone who's single or monogamous, thanks for visiting and i wish you much success!

i get to do what i love and have learned to live richly while not being rich. i've been rich and poor, well off and homeless, shy and a showman and here and there. i love travelling and keeping busy. i have a wide social network with a career that enables me to celebrate being alive at all volume levels. i usually think of exactly what i want to say en route somewhere and have forgotten it by the time i get the chance to write it down.

i'm a musician, motorcyclist, forever trying to get a regular exercise plan going, bicyclist, burner, actor, teacher, comic, smart ass, wide-eyed, bashful, talkative, a night owl, worried about the mundane things, cynical, jaded, yet optimistic and have hope for the world.

I believe that connections are key, even for a casual encounter. I am also a firm believer that we are all equal regardless of gender. Conversely, I will insist on holding the door open for you.

I am alert, talkative, and easily distracted. Very easily.

I have also had a couple experiences in the past that have left me gun shy about making the first move. It's something I am working on, much like all of life's lessons. that being said, if you want to hear from me, please say hello!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
working on music, teaching it, performing it, trying to understand better ways to get what i hear in my head to sound like it coming back in through my ears;

i'm not the best at describing myself so please fire away with curiousnesses.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
reading between the lines

believing what you say

seeing the other side of the coin

laughing during stressful times

diving in up to my neck in something

kissing cuddling smirking

looking evil until i open my mouth

quoting movie lines and catch phrases

comedic uh....timing

Hitting things with sticks

Pressing buttons and twisting knobs
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
usually they hear me coming. then i've heard comments about my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
BOOKS-
Neil Gaiman & Terry Prachett: Good Omens; Christopher Moore: A Dirty Job; Inkheart

wouldn't ming picking up again: Ishmael and the Story of B by daniel quinn; Hyperion series; Tom Robbins; the princess bride; squee; Snowcrash by Neal Stephenson;

to dive into: The People's History of America; Lamb; The Historian;

movies: the 5th element; the emperor's new groove; walk hard; spinal tap (and most other christopher guest & co films like best in show, mighty wind, etc.); pan's labyrinth; tenacious D and the pick of destiny; formula 51; the occasional adventure romp like the italian job;

music: there's very little i don't like in music. i'm most often listening to tracks to prep my next mix of electroswing. I'm a late comer to dance music and am making up for most time. House, techno, deep, breaks, and recently glitch hop are usually going on in my head or coming out my speakers .

food: i'm a sucker for sushi (preferably responsibly/consciously offered) and thai food.

Thanks to bacon and realizing I need meat in my diet pretty much an omnivore again. Locally grown and organic is always preferable to processed. Still don't like onions and green peppers and beef though. So many delicious alternatives...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
good food (preferably organic, but you know how it goes with bacon and burritos)

music

friends

love

nature

motorcycles
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
money why we're here drumbeats and grooves what if...?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
playing music or supporting my friends doing the same. or laundry.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
As a result of seeing Jaws when I was young I have a hard time remaining calm if I'm the last one to leave the room.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you enjoy multiple topics in a single conversation and you find the exclamation "-ooh!!" an endearing segue

you understand and are comfortable with the fact that i am polyamorous. While i have a busy schedule I love how opportunities to interact present themselves as the universe sees fit.

You know what it means to be polychronic and can flow with that.