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47 Cleveland Heights, OH Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 12
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Skinny
Diet
Vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of masters program
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Not single. I consider myself polyamorous or ethically non-monogamous with very low-complexity agreements. I'm involved with someone who lives in another city and we talk about everything. Throwing this in the first paragraph to notify the folks who aren't ok with that.

I moved to Seattle when I was out of work and got a job offer and needed to continue to support my (many) (adopted) kids. I came back when I realized they were, in fact, not following me out there, and things had picked up enough here that I could get a new job. I'm going back some day. When the kids are grown at the latest. I was very happy in the northwest, but yes, when there I regularly talked up the good things about Cleveland.

Someone said I look stern in my photos on here, but I'm not going to bother to wrestle some up which show me as the happy smiling person my friends say I am.

Love to ride a bike. Any kind, anywhere. My user-name on here is kind of a zen/bicycling reference,

I am playful, kinetic, and gregarious.

I am an activist in the "everybody can look however the hell they want" movement. I love people. I love freaky people. I love interesting people. I consider myself freaky, and would like to think I'm interesting.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working. Living. Exploring. Supporting people. Riding my bikes. Trying to eat good food and drink good beer more often.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
throwing together a meal for whoever's around out of whatever's at hand, listening with interest, teaching with patience.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I am dancing my ass off. (Well, you know, if it's that kind of party.)

That I am kind of quiet (it's an illusion that will be broken when I get to know you a little better, it's just that I am trying to listen to get to know you, where you are coming from, what you are like, first.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: Noisy, dance-able, up-beat, grinding, difficult, grating, funky, etc. In various combinations. Punk roots, but appreciation for lots. My favorite live band at the moment is Rubblebucket. They can get a room moving. I am amazed by the variety available on Spotify, so I go on benders. I also enjoy various public radio shows broadcast and on podcast.

Food: Veggie food that isn't fake versions of meat-food. Grains, beans and veggies. Rice. Curries. Ethiopian/Eritrean. Dark beers and sour ales.

Movies: I prefer something with an edge. Excitement or thought. Though fun can be fun.

Books: I don't even know. I can always go back and re-read Vonnegut, or older science fiction, but I like a wide variety. I go to the library and always come back with something. I realized recently I had missed Octavia Butler completely so I scored a couple of her books and am reading them.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I like to think that all I would need would be rice, water, and warmth, and I could live forever, but in the interest of playing along, to make me happy in the life I am living:
Bikes
Conversation
Vegetables
Warm days
Physical contact
Coffee
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what I could do to know more people. How to do well in meeting my obligations.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
recovering from the week. Cleaning. Cooking. Maybe riding a little more. Friday is my more frequent free night than Saturday, so hopefully getting out to.. I don't know, wherever. Secret Soul thing this coming Friday, I think.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The problem is, I am an over-sharer and have low boundaries. So I can't even think of candidates for the answer to this question. Except for things I just wouldn't post. And you could probably ask me about those things the first day we met and I would answer.
You should message me if
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you like music, art, activity, whatever. Getting out and doing things. You aren't looking for the one to complete your life, but just want to enjoy life a bit more, and with company.

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