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31 Oakland, CA Trans Man

Trans Man

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
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5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Other, but not too serious about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Italian (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Despite what my username suggests, I believe that burritos are superior to tacos. I am sorry if you are devastated by this. Here, this delicious burrito will comfort you.


Is this where I should put some witty repertoire to wow you, random OKC user?

In the last 24 hours, I spent too much time looking at campsites, watching nature documentaries, planning roadtrips and in general, places to be outside in, and thinking about becoming either a watchmaker or blacksmith (or both).

I work a lot and am trying to structure my free time more. I hike, nap in the sun, hang out with my dog, write write write, and spend too much time preparing for hypotheticals. On a less serious note, I want to find some decent sweet tea and fried okra around these parts.

I also have a dog, Nigel, who has an amazing underbite and is my adventure partner. So, if you are looking for a canine friend, Nigel could use some.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Finally admitting to myself that maybe I should go back to school. Forcing myself to write every day-I will finish this novel I have inside of me!
Running, hiking, being outside.
Going to the beach and enthusiastically watching all the little sand crabs dig into the sand backwards when the waves retreat.
Trying to figure out what to eat. I open my fridge door and then stare for a minute and then usually settle on-you guessed it-a burrito.
And on a more serious note: Trying to stay active in the labor rights community. Trying to find time to keep up with big Ag laws and what that means to everyone's food sources.
Planning roadtrips to random places.
Reading! Or Netflix watching. Or hammock napping.
Stashing some water away, ya know...just in case.
Going into bookstores and lingering in the smell of fresh print. Wishing that smell was a cologne so I could wear it.
Trying to figure out how much I can fit into a day.
Getting overly excited when I smell rain.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Smiling. Laughing. Listening
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
They notice my dog first. Which is totally okay with me since he is amazing
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I read EVERYTHING. So here are some random author off the top of my head: Joe Meno, Tom Robbins, Margaret Atwood, Ray Bradbury, Milan Kundrea,Octavia Butler there are more but mostly I pick up whatever interests me. So besides those, I've been reading a lot of non-fiction lately as well.
I could dicuss books, the publishing industry, the insane task of getting published-and things of that nature-all day long. I want to own a house simply for the pleasure of having a huge floor to ceiling bookshelf. I live for words. Mostly for the exsistence of a language and not for speaking it, but for listening to it.

Movies: I still watch 90s Disney movies. I also love ridiculous disaster films. And documentaries. And as far as I can tell, I might be the only one who enjoys horror films. Truth: I am excited about any movies concerning dinosaurs, robots, or zombies.

Music: This is always hard because I feel like everyone is always like, Öh yeah I listen to everything! This is me: It really depends on what I am feeling that day. Or if I just discovered a new band, I tend to play them non stop for I dunno, a month. Or until i find another new band. Current bands I am playing non stop: Mother Mother and Marmozet, Delta Rae

. My favorite food of all time: avocados.
Let's talk about food. All. Day. Long. About food you've wanted to try, about food you don't like, about the state of the agriculture business in America, about how you grow your own food or want to grow your own good. Let's just talk about food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My dog.
A decent hoodie
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Labor rights, if we really will run out of water in a year, how much food I should save (just in case), what book I should read next, if I will find anyone who wants to take a roadtrip with me, if I should fly over the other coast and surprise my parents, if I have time for a nap, if I have time for a hike, if I have time to listen to an episode of my favorite podcasts (Welcome to Nightvale and Thrilling Adventure Hour if you are curious)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working. It's rare that I have a Friday off.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If given the opportunity, I'd move to Switzerand and became a watch maker
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you are a femme that prefers to date MoC folks/Trans guys.
You want to grab some food together at my favorite resturant.
You want some more friends who are up for anything.
Your dog needs a dog friend