I'm a lover not a fighter. Ambitious yet playful, content where I am but striving for greatness. Self-aware, emotionally resilient. Masculine, but non-traditional. I'm not afraid to wear bright colors, and I'm not afraid of intimacy. A tiny bit arrogant sometimes, but I know it's a flaw and it happens less and less as I get older and understand deeply the difference between knowing I'm awesome and thinking I'm better than anyone else. If we become close I'm loyal and will take good care of you and go out of my way to help you. I love kids and animals but don't currently have or want any. I don't take anything too seriously, including myself. I am fundamentally kind. I understand that the world is amazing.
I am in a stable, joyful, crazy awesome long-term open marriage [you can see my partner in a couple of my pics]. We both date other people, usually but not always separately. If you're exclusively looking for single guys, this is the perfect time to stop reading; I don't get any more single further down. I am open to a pretty wide range of possibilities, from friendly playmates to long-term deeply intimate relationships; I let things find their own level rather than starting with strict rules and boundaries. I prefer ongoing interactions to one-time hookups.
* Actually you don't have to be intense. Either way on that. I just didn't want to write "Intense, intelligent, big-hearted life-loving optimist seeks same, except really you don't have to be intense even though I am, but you do have to be all the other things" as my first sentence. It doesn't really ring, does it?