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rikkalicious

34 / F / Gay / Single

San Jose, California

Her Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:55am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Virgo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Dislikes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), LISP (Fluently), C++ (Okay)

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My self-summary
"Heaven does it come to me
In the dreaming that my soul's been freed
And the torment of my madness gone away
And though god says he loves
And i, i think of love
I cannot change the way i am
"

I never know what to say in these things... Let's see... I am the body servant to seven fabulous felines (two were my best friend's cats)... I have eight piercings and three tattoos... I'm a bit of a computer geek... Been bit more of a recluse than normal lately... I sometimes have way too much fun with ellipses... and let's face the facts, I'm an otaku. I also really enjoy indoor climbing (top-roping much more so than bouldering, though that isn't bad either).

I tend to be quiet around groups of people and shy (boy that's an understatement!) with people I'm not familiar with, opening up more as I warm up more to the person.

I can also be rather sarcastic, and a bit of a misanthrope at times. I also wear my heart on my sleeve and tend to be way too nice for my own good, not to mention quite empathetic. I also can be pretty literal at times and am bad at picking up on hints, particularly regarding romantic/intimate/sexual matters.

Oh, I am also a bit childlike at times, though not so much around others. There are very very few people still in this world who I trust enough and with whom I am comfortable enough to not be self-conscious about such behaviour and to truly let down my guard.
What I’m doing with my life
Right now mainly working, adjusting to life without my best friend, and catering to the wishes of my many feline overlords. And very slowly trying to learn Japanese.

Haven't been climbing nearly as frequently as I'd like due to a lack of top-roping partners/friends with time in their schedules (hint! hint!).
I’m really good at
computer programming, being a good listener and a good friend, and baking cookies. And procrastination. I think I've done enough procrastinating to become really, really good at it.
The first things people usually notice about me
Judging from the number of random strangers strangers complimenting me on it, I'd have to say the tattoo on my arm. ^.^
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
* Movies: The Dark Crystal, Mirrormask, D.E.B.S., Labyrinth, The Silence of the Lambs, Dogma, The Fifth Element, Ultraviolet, Gone in Sixty Seconds, The Nightmare Before Christmas, But I'm a Cheerleader, ...

* Shows: True Blood, Dexter, NCIS, Law & Order SVU, Firefly, The 4400, The Closer, The L Word, Bones, In Plain Sight, NCIS LA, Lie to Me, Leverage, ...

* Anime: Tenshi Muyo, Kanokon, MM!, Tsukuyomi Moon Phase, Dragon Crisis, Elfen Lied, Chobits, Hellsing, Otome wa Boku ni Koishiteru, To LoveRu, Sekirei, Ladies vs Butlers!, Space Pirate Mito, Kanamemo... many many others.. and of course yuri.

* Music (well, artists/bands): HausHetaere! Xentrifuge, Acylum, DYM, Die Braut, Unter Null, Tactical Sekt, Xotox, Freakangel, H.Exe, The Agonist, Paradise Lost, Opeth, Unter Null, Suicide Commando, Noisuf-X, Luna Mortis, Draconian, Psyborg Corp, Flesh Field, Dimmu Borgir, Kittie, Korpiklaani, The Ditty Bops, Flyleaf, Faun... the list goes on and on. Basically some forms of metal (generally more melodic/symphonic stuff, particularly when it comes to black metal), some electro/industrial/EBM--especially harsh EBM, dark electro and power noise, and some random bits.

* Food: dark chocolate (especially 60-75% cocoa--even better when it is salty chocolate), sashimi, sushi, pizza, various forms of pasta, Japanese food, and many more... but I'm not big on spicy foods as my palate is too sensitive for them.
The six things I could never do without
my cats
cuddling and hugs
chocolate
my computer
intellectual stimulation
close friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Whatever books or manga I'm currently reading, various computer and craft projects, anime girls, beautiful women, pussy...
On a typical Friday night I am
on the computer (either playing video games or coding), reading, or... bloody hell if I know anymore.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I never learned how to ride a bike. :'(

I wasn't raised as a girl because my parents didn't know better (To be more explicit about that: I'm a post-op male-to-female transsexual.).
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 24–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
One or more of the following are true:
* You'd like to go climbing sometime ^.^
* You'd like to meet for tea/coffee and see what happens.
* You think I'm attractive.
* You want to ask me anything.
* You'd like to go climbing, in case I didn't mention it. ;)