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rilke_kai

35 / F / straight / Single

Tacoma, Washington

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
Short-term dating, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Pets
Owns dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), German (Okay), French (Poorly)

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I am thoughtful, charismatic, and complex.

My Self-Summary

I don't mind getting lost, because that's where the fun starts. I'm calm under duress, and I can hold my own in nearly any conversation. I notice the things that aren't said as much as the ones that are. I give up my seat on the bus to the elderly, people with kids, or people just look tired. I am probably not like the girls you know. I know the secret of the Chunky the Squirrel song.

Adventures are fun by yourself, but even better when you have someone to share it with. I love smart, clever guys who can both get a joke and make one, and who treat their lives with a healthy balance of the serious and the lighthearted, seasoned with sweetness and confidence, who can lay their cards on the table without flinching.

What I’m doing with my life

I love my job, I love what I've done with my life. Now I spend time expanding it: meeting new people, getting involved with new ideas, making the most of my time. I never regret, but if the choice comes between regretting something I've done and something I haven't done, I'll take the thing I have done every time.

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I’m really good at

I'm really good at being the friend I want others to be.

The first things people usually notice about me

I'm tall. Well, I don't feel tall, but I notice the effect it has on people. Sometimes it's a nervous smile, sometimes it's a weird gulp of air. It's always entertaining.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I love books that are heavy on the characterization and light on the adverbs. While I'll eat pretty much anything, I'd prefer it not be fast food, and if it's made in a locally owned non-chain restaurant, all the better. Best of all, if it's made by the hand of someone that cares about you.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

My friends, my dog, art I'm working on or would like to do.

On a typical Friday night I am

It depends on what is going on in my life.

You should message me if

You've actually read through my profile, know how to apply the rules of grammar.