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47 • Oakland, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 29–52
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating
- Last online
- Sep 5, 2013
- 5′ 7″ (1.70m)
- Body type
- Other, and somewhat serious about it
- Dropped out of university
- Rather not say
- Has kids
- Likes dogs and has cats
-- Not much longer before I head out --
I have been to Burning Man and will be returning this year. I found a great camp, HeeBeeGeeBee Healers 6:45 @ False Idol, where I spend my days providing bodywork for people in need. It felt great to be there helping people to be able to get back to enjoying their burn.
I am a Jack of All Trades and enjoy doing lots of different. I usually can pick up just about anything and figure it out. I am self taught in most things. I have been doing a few things for a long time: Coding, Bodywork, Sewing / Pattern Making / Corsets, Cooking / Baking / Candies, Construction / Remodeling, Driving.
I used to do a lot of English Country Dancing, Contra Dancing, and Regency Dancing. I would like get back into going on a more regular basis. I am also getting back into riding my bike.
On the sewing front I have been working on a Dickens' outfit. It will have a loud pair of red and green plaid pants, a brightly colored holiday appropriate vest. The frock coat is a black and green pen line strip, on the diagonal, wool. I recently put together a Victorian butterfly train attached to a corset type belt. I am also going to be making some dress patterns for a friend.
On the relationship side, I am very good at taking care of and pampering my partner. I am good at finding that right spot to go to. I good at sitting quietly and just being with someone. I am a great at cuddling.
And a few more things I am good at:Solving puzzles, telling puns, figuring out how to get that piece of furniture out of that space or into this one, cooking, cleaning (though I do not do it enough...), Handyman stuff, driving, and having fun in life.
I read / listen to a lot of Sci-Fi. It is a big universe out there so I will try to narrow it down.
Snow Crash, Diamond Age, Contrarywise, Enders Game, Vorkosigan saga, Honor Harrington saga, Cyteen, Neverwhere, American Gods, Good Omens, Armor, Farewell Horizontal, Wraeththu Chronicles, Friday, Stranger in a Strange Land, Time Enough for Love, Crystal Singer, Eat Pray Love, Kushiel's Dart, Dragon Bone Chair, LoTR,
Kingdom of Heaven, Bed of Roses, Ocean 11-13, Brave, Thomas Crown Affair, Breakfast of Tiffinay's, Who's Afraid of Virgina Wolf, Lord of the Rings, White Christmas, Court Jester, Hitch, (reboot) Star Trek, Burlesque, Marry Poppins, Wizard of Oz, Orlando, That Think You Do, Commitments, Devils Wears Prada
Camelot, Chicago, Much Ado About Nothing, Finan's Rainbow,
Voice, So You Think You Can Dance, Top Gear (UK), Lost Girl, CSI, Crimial Minds, Project Runway, Bones, Castle,
Jessie J, Dead Can Dance, Mistrals of Mayhem, Katy Perry, Christina Aguilera, Sovoso, House Jacks, P!ink, Professor Trance and the Energizers, Delta Rae, Bruno Mars, Adele, Bond, Chieftains, Eurythmics, Dar Williams, Emerald Rose, Fiest, Israel Kamakawiwo'ole (IZ), Jars of Clay, Johnny Cash, Kinship, Lily Allen, Mediaeval Baebes, Madonna, Nicholas Gunn, Queen, Rush, Ultravox, Suzanne Sterling, Lilly Allen
To be engineering something
touching the divine.
You find something about me interesting and want to see if there is any connection.
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