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45 Carpinteria, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 31–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 4:31am
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Other, but not too serious about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Rather not say
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hello and welcome ,
I wouldn't say this is a self-summary , but more like thoughts or character traits ,

I think I need to put this out there... I am not an excellent Speller , I barely got a C in English Lit. , So please don't judge me souly on that , You know , everybody has some weaknesses .

I will say right now that ... Being with me is way more Fun than reading about me ... you know , like how do you discribe the taste of chocolate or the feeling of Happyness , I'm not comparing , just saying ,...

Here is a little bit about Me;
I focus on the Positive and Live in the moment , you can't change the past and the future is what you create .

Love , Happyness & Contentment come from within ( You ) and no person place or thing can give you that , it comes from your own inner journy / adventure ,.. But once you have it ... sharing it is priceless .

I do what I say and say what I mean... B S is for cowards . .

I prefer to make my own adventures and Play the sports or Do the activity... rather than watching other people do it or tell you their verson of what happened on TV , but I do Love my Netflix and going to a live game or event . . . . So if it's not clear ... " I am not a Sports fan "... But I do like parties and get togethers .

I am very much a beach and ocean person , Ive been surfing my entire life , beach Vollyball is great and very social , active fun , stand up paddelboarding ...also super fun , I also like biking along the beach or around town and just being spontainous , you never know where you will end up . . .

I'm hoping to meet someone that it doesn't matter what we are doing or where we are , it just feels good being with them , chemistry and deep connection .

Ok , Im tired of wtriting for now , I'll add more later , or you can message me and we can talk , that would be nice . .

Ok I'm back ,... Well I actually just had another thought ...I could talk about what I do for a living , where I live , where I've traveled or what I'm doing in my Life ... Naaahhh , I'd rather hang out and we can find out about each other ... Together ...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living it and appriciating every moment .
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being in the moment .
communicating , understanding & expressing thoughts & feelings .
reading people nd finding the flow .
cooking Italian or cooking as a party activity .
surfing and all kind of adventures .
I can usually fix almost anything ( Except Computers )
Long slow kissing...
you will have to get to know me to find out the rest.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
that I'm friendly and kind and very easy to talk with .
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Mystes of Avalon, Island of the Blue Dolphin ,The Ramayana , Life of Pai // , The Last Samuri , The Matrix (all 3) , Princeses Bride , Meet Joe Black , IP Man , Darjiling Express , Kill Bill (all 3) , "300" , Austin Powers (all 3) , Almost Famous , Snatch , Lord Of The Rings , Anchor Man , Pootie Tang , Pulp Fiction , Super Bad //, Radiohead , Nirvana , Lumineers , Black Keys , Mumford & Sons , Outkast , Black Eyed Peas , Jay Z , Mutineers , The Upbeat , Oso , Rainbow Girls , The English Beat ... //, True Blood , Breaking Bad , Sons of Anarchy , Mad Men , Dexter , Glee ...really ? ... // , Italian , Indian , Greek , Mexican , Almost all Asian food , Fusion Food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my soul
I've noticed that a lot of you can't live without your Iphone , that seems like an interesting conversation topic .
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What makes my heart beat .

" Update "... after reading many profiles it seems as though almost all women like to drink wine , travel and laugh... ok , not including wine and travel , it made me wonder if their is Anyone who doesn't enjoy laughing .

Here is something I find kinda hard to figure out... I really do not THINK about anything mostly all the time , It's more like I am "intoxicated " with desires, passion , a high drive for excellence .
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Typical Shmipical , everyday is like friday .
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I still believe in "Love at First Sight"
I know , I'm hopeless .
You should message me if
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you are interested in meeting someone who is not perfect and knows it , but is fun & happy and can roll with the flow .