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33 San Luis Obispo, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 31–41
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
4′ 9″ (1.45m)
Body Type
A little extra
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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I'm an introvert so it can take me a while to open up to new people. Once I feel comfortable around someone, I'm pretty friendly and I've been mistaken for an extrovert once in a while.

I am constantly trying to learn new things and improve myself. I would like to find a guy who is also passionate about learning/exploring new things, places, and ideas. The subject matter doesn't really matter, just the enthusiasm and willingness to discuss and share things together. By no means does this mean we have to share/do every activity together. I actually tend to be on the independent side and will need time by myself. I would support and encourage a guy to have time for himself too.

I'm in my head a lot and can sometimes take myself too seriously so I would like to find someone who can make me laugh. I love when a guy can say something that surprises a laugh out of me and when I can do the same for him too. To me there's (almost) nothing worse than making a joke and having someone stare back at me with a blank expression. I tend to gravitate toward silly/goofy/random, witty, and sometimes sarcastic humor.

Just a note, I tend to miss nuances and social cues so it's probably best to be direct with me.
What I’m doing with my life
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My job involves engineering and other left-brained activities. So outside of work I tend to enjoy right-brained activities, especially if it involves arts and crafts. I love to make things, but I find I tend to get bored after a while so I move on to something else. I love to learn and try new things. In the past I've been interested in knitting, scrapbooking, card making, and paper cut art. Right now I'm really getting into glass fusion and photography.

I also enjoy puzzles, Sudoku, and card games. I used to play a low stakes poker game with some friends before we graduated and they all moved out of town. About once a month a bunch of my girlfriends get together and have a Cards Against Humanity game night. I almost never win but I don't care because we laugh so hard every time we play.

I tend to watch a lot of television, and I'll watch movies occasionally. I mostly like comedies (The Big Bang Theory, Psych, The Middle, Brooklyn Nine-Nine) and I'll sometimes watch dramas, especially if they are science fiction based (Once Upon a Time, Person of Interest).

I like to travel and have been to Europe, Asia, and South America. I'd like to see all 50 states but I only have been to 13 so far. I'm planning a trip to Texas next summer so that number should increase in the near future :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Avoiding answering this question.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm vertically challenged. I also take a long time to warm up to new people, but am very friendly once I do.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love comedies, the quirkier, the better! (TV: Arrested Development, The Big Bang Theory, Brooklyn Nine-Nine. Movies: Mallrats, Spaceballs, The Princess Bride, Back to the Future) Recently I've been getting into dramas too: Once Upon a Time, Scorpion, and Person of Interest.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I had to think about this for a while to weed out the obvious things (food, water, shelter, air, family, friends, etc) and create a list that reflects my preferences. Here they are, in no particular order:

- a comfy chair (or even better, multiple comfy chairs)
- television with expanded channels (not premium but I need more than just network tv)
- radio (internet radio is included, basically I need access to music)
- computer with internet connection (should this be two things?)
- online banking (okay, I know this sounds kind of strange but hear me out! I'm not always the best at keeping track of things so I love that my bills get paid as they are due. I'm pretty good at keeping an eye on things so I'm not overcharged.)
- chocolate (I decided to keep the last spot for my favorite food and I'm not sure that I nailed it. Runners up included: Pizza, popcorn, french fries, cookies, and brownies. This answer could change daily).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Traveling. How long will it take me to save for my next trip, where I will go, and if I have enough vacation time. I value my time off so much I take a pay cut every paycheck in exchange for more time off from work.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually I'm at home relaxing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have horrible peripheral vision. My coworkers sometimes like to mess with me by seeing how long it takes before I notice they are in my cube. Sometimes I'll look up at or down from my computer and jump in my seat because someone is standing within 2 feet of me and I did not see them enter my cubicle.