Find better matches with our advanced
matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy


44 Beijing, China Man


Similar users

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Sep 29
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Atheism and laughing about it
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Japanese (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat), Chinese (Somewhat), Thai (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Writing my profile? It's been on the back burner, one of these days I'll get it done. Probably read too much for my own good. Been experimenting, loving my goofball friends, mystery trips on my bike til late, sipping in the moonlight, swimming outside all year round. Insatiably curious about ten thousand things.

Lately studies in medicine and psychoanalysis have figured large. Can’t shake the fact most visionary croakers are bat-shit insane, though in a brilliantly fucked-up way. If you want to know how any chemical affects the brain, why humans dream, change sex, collect underpants or play with fire etc, I swear I’ve got all the best answers, even the wrong ones - especially during nitrous oxide orgies

Can’t have enough clever and funny creatures in my world, which would be a great excuse to be friends with you.

I love sunlight, smiling faces, mountain lakes, dancing, playing music, surrealism, hiking, reading, traveling, great conversations, passion and spontaneity -- love to laugh and enjoy those who have interesting things to say and do, challenge my mind, make me laugh, know how to be happy and have fun!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Painting the town red, dancing on the tables. Increasingly drawn into the orbit of China . . . *cough *cough yep this place is pretty much irresistible. Going garage transnational with my start-up. Gearing up to launch a huge and crazy cool project that's been brewing for years.

Amongst other things = wrote-directed a feature length movie that played international film fests, produced live events and records, made an iphone app, freelancing in Asia as a business consultant. In a recent past life taught hormonally-challenged, gifted teen delinquents. Gawd knows why I did this . . . probably a misplaced, nerdy enthusiasm for culture, masochism and summers exploring new lands. International travel is part of my job now and I love it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Questions, answers, explanations - and laughing . . . If you be curious to know me and wanna see how we'd hit it off, why not start by reading and comparing questions? Probably wouldn't hurt. Because there's nothing more boner-inducing than someone who does the good mind grind, don't ya think?
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i have no idea
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Music = John Lee Hooker, Charlie Christian, Django Reinhardt, Miles Davis, Charlie Parker, Howlin' Wolf, Neu, Kraftwerk, The Saints, The Stooges, The Beastie Boys, Sonic Youth, Guided By Voices (90s), The Velvet Underground, My Bloody Valentine, Brian Eno, The Orb, Deadbeat, Bob Dylan, Muddy Waters, NWA, Bix Biederbecke, Rolling Stones, Benny Goodman, Steve Reich, Ravel, Satie, Beethoven, Wagner etc

Movies = Spirited Away, Modern Times, A Clockwork Orange, Borat, Casablanca, Match Point, Taxi Driver, Blue Velvet, No Country For Old Men, The Man Who Would Be King, A Touch of Sin, Apocalypse Now, etc

Authors = Henry Miller, Kurt Vonnegut, Phillip K Dick, Oscar Wilde, Lao Tzu, the i Ching, Slavoj Zizek . . . and so on
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
frequent travel
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How you can be in love with someone you don't even really like . . .
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
visiting with friend(s)

playing music



The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
not here . . . it's secret knowledge for good reason
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- you're beautiful, spontaneous, open-minded and fun

- you think i'm probably interesting and/or not too bad lookin'

- you like a good laugh

- you can tell a funny dirty joke