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risingpheonix88

49 F North Vernon, IN

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
OK guys, if you are looking for the following things, please DO NOT message me:
1. A cougar
2. Someone just for sex or sexting . . . If that is what I was on here looking for, I actually wouldn't need to be here at all, because that is something I could easily get every day if that is ONLY what I wanted.
3. Someone to go to church with you. I personally think Christ would be appalled by Christianity, and as I stated clearly in my profile, I have no time for fear based, organized religion.
4. Someone who is skinny, athletic or toned. If you answered "No" to the question "Can overweight people be sexy?", please keep on keeping on!
5. Someone who shares her red and purple skittles, because that's just not happening! :-) Well, okay, maybe one or two, but you'd have to be pretty damn special!

Now that we've go that out of the way . . .

You may be perfect for me if:
• You only know how to love unconditionally
• The things that you value most, and the things that bring you the most joy in life are things that do not come with a price tag on them i.e. the beauty of nature, a babies laugh, waking up to someone you love, a smile or touch that say things that words could never say.
• You are committed to being honest and open, both with yourself and me, and you try to live an authentic life.
• You are free from destructive addictions i.e. drugs, alcohol, gambling, smoking
• You seek out new experiences, love to learn new things, challenge yourself to become a grander version of who you are every day, and see life as a progressive journey.
• You are financially responsible and stable
• You are free from anger management issues, and the idea of verbal or physical abuse on any level is appalling to you.
• You prefer to hunt with a camera rather than a gun
• You enjoy being totally open with your partner, sharing your dreams with each other, and then working together to make both you and your partners dreams come true.
• You believe in miracles and endless possibilities, and you focus more on the positive aspects of life and try not to sweat the small stuff.
• You don’t mind doing the dishes or mopping the floors or that I may mow the lawn or fix a leak in the plumbing--you are happy allowing me to do the things I love, while you do the things you love, and you don't mind coming together finish up what's left. There are no stereotypes, gender roles, or expectations within the relationship.

Here's a little about me:

I am a writer/published author. This is something I can do from anywhere, so while I have homes in both IN and MS, and have nothing else keeping me in either place. I also recently graduated from college with 2 degrees (Paralegal, and Liberal Arts). To my credit, despite having fairly severe ADD, I made the Deans List each semester, ended with Magna Cume Laude honors.
While I am highly spiritual, I have no time for fear-based, organized religion, so I would welcome someone who thinks outside of the box and is on that same page.
I enjoy going off the beaten path to find those quiet, untouched, places in nature, or an out of the way mom and pops diner. I am like a hummingbird, I like to experience a little bit of everything life has to offer; I find some things sweeter than others, and may stay awhile longer to drink them in. I tend to be drawn to the quieter, less dramatic things in life, and am probably more of an observer than I am a participant.
As far as sports go, I have been known to enjoy a good football or baseball game, but I don't like a steady diet of any of them.
I find politics boring and the news depressing.
I don't mind getting my hands dirty, and I can talk shop and swing a hammer. I am actually more comfortable in a tool belt than I am in an apron, but I can pose as a lady when necessary, as long as it isn't required for extended periods of time. For those of you looking for Miss Priss, I am not her. I have been known to use 4 letters words, and leave dirty dishes in the sink. I would rather spend my time creating quality memories with someone I love, than obsessing over mundane chores that can be done when I'm not interacting with my lover. (bottom line...you/people first, things last) Physically, I am a work in progress, but I do try to work out on a regular basis and eat a little healthier these days.
Other than that, I am a little too blunt at times, but you can be certain I will always be honest with you. I am intelligent, an independent thinker, a seeker, passionate, open minded, easy going, and non-judgmental.
I know what it feels like to have loved deeply and lost (my husband passed away unexpectedly 5 years ago). I am a devoted mother of a 23 yr old daughter and a 25 yr old son who both live on their own. I am also blessed to know the joys of being a grandmother.
I am only looking for one--that special one that has an open mind and who understands that life is about the journey, not the destination. Honesty and openness are EXTREMELY important to me and I have absolutely no time for jealousy, drama, or false facades.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Taking it one day at a time, and trying to go with the flow.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing, cooking, finding creative solutions to problems, and . . . ummm, well if you're really lucky you might find out about some other things that are a little more intimate ;-)
The first things people usually notice about me
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The mischievous twinkle in my eyes and the playful smile on my face.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I enjoy listening to most music except opera and rap, but I usually gravitate toward classic rock, classic pop, and some country. My taste in movies leans towards comedies, dramas, action/adventure, and sci-fi--However, I am not into horror or blood and guts.
My favorite authors are James Redfield, Dr. Wayne Dyer, Esther Hicks, Neale Donald Walsch and Deepak Chopra
I don't watch a lot of TV, but when I do I usually look for something that inspires me, educates me, or makes me think or laugh. My favorite sitcom is the Big Bang Theory. I also enjoy do it yourself & home improvement shows like 'Holmes on Homes' on HGTV.(In a better economy I would love to flip houses)
I can't say that I have an absolute "favorite" when it comes to food, but seafood is high on the list. I love experimenting in the kitchen, and trying new things, but tend to avoid meat that is raw or still moving.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Besides the obvious basic necessities i.e. air, water, food, and shelter: loving and being loved, reasons to laugh and live, hope, freedom, choices
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The importance of finding balance in my life and setting boundaries when necessary.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Standing on my head while naked and barking at the moon? Oh wait, I save that for special nights like Tuesday. LOL
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I will never marry again, at least in the legal sense, although I am looking for a long term and hopefully lifetime committed, monogamous relationship, and I would be perfectly okay with the idea of going through a commitment ceremony.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 45–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
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You're tired of the games, and looking for someone who will be refreshingly honest with you.