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53 • Crawley, UK • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 42–55
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 16
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body type
- Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
- Has kids
Can usually behave appropriately if asked nicely, in most situations, generally chilled out, a bit sarccy sometimes, fully house trained and can also catch them big spiders in the house and put them outside.
I love old skool music, Big roast dinners, weekend getaways, being outdoors, hiking / walking / running and late night discussions (over a good bottle or 3 ) on how to put the world to rights and other trivia.
Love to travel, love an adventure at home or abroad and always looking for an excuse to get away and do so as much as I can.
Have probably got used to being a bit too independent in the past but would love for that to change.....
Separating the chaff from the wheat.
Also knocking down bits of my house and re building them slightly different
I'm told I have a good rear end
Aldous huxley - Brave new world. Scary stuff!
Mo Hayder - the walking man books
Wild - Cheryl Strayed
Anything by Charlie Brooker or
Nick Hornby or
Mark Brandon Read
Coen Brothers (esp Raising Arizona), Mud, Her, Moon, Wizard of oz (and the new one) The Usual suspects, Pulp fiction, Sharknado, Fight club, Choke, 500 days of summer, Enough said, Kick ass (the first one) Napoleon Dynamite, Breaking bad, True Detective and the Simpsons
Love old school disco and soul, Motown, House, kisstory, punk, new wave, reggae, Blues, rock plus an ever increasing, eclectic, diverse selection of many kinds.
Les mis blah
Do tortoises have ears?
Is the Moon really the other side of the Sun??
If most people on here say their sex drive is above average does that then become the new average ??
You probably don't look or act your age a lot of the time.
You have your own mind and opinions on things, big sense of humor, bright, enjoys a good bit of light banter, sometimes impulsive and loves the great outdoors and is up for a bit of an adventure now and again
You love having some good times and enjoys being treated nicely.
Please DON'T message me if you listed any of the following:
Your i phone as something you cant live without
Your favorite bands include Colplay or Franz ferdinand
Your have used the word "spiritual" anywhere in your description.
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