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rivendel

47 / F / straight / Single

Leerdam, Netherlands

The Skinny

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 4" (1.65m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Scorpio but it doesn’t matter
Education
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
Dutch (Fluently), English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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Your Notes

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I am Leuk/Nice, Lief/Sweet, and Slim/Smart.

My Self-Summary

Now in Dutch
The prettiest thing you can wear is a smile.....

-<-<-@

Letterlijk en figuurlijk stevige dame, op zoek naar een mooi mens....

Ik wil bewonderen, me verwonderen en verbazen...
Ik wil bewonderd worden, je verwonderen en verbazen...
Ik wil je raken en geraakt worden...

Als ik jou laat zijn en jij mij laat zijn, hoe mooi kunnen we dan samen zijn...

Voelen met mijn hoofd en denken met mijn hart, ja! dat wil, doe ik.... soms zijn ze in de war, dan voelt mijn hart dat mijn hoofd denkt dat mijn hart niet denkt en mijn hart weet dat mijn hoofd het moeilijk heeft en vergeeft...

-<-<-@

zou het uit de hoogte klinken
je het onbescheiden vinden als ik je vraag
wil je mijn held zijn?
in harnas met schild tegen de pijn
wil je mijn held zijn
vanavond, vannacht
(van dik hout)
ook overdag en zal ik dan jouw held zijn?

@->->-

het is stil tussen jou en mij
maakt dat je bang?
laat het stil zijn tussen jou en mij
een stilte waarin we delen, genieten
en weten, het is goed!
(aw2003)

@->->-

Aan het einde van de dag
Aan het einde van de dag,
als iemand aan komt hollen met de liefde,
als je moe bent en onhandig en toevallig net verward in een warnet
van angsten –
wat moet je doen,
wat moet je met de liefde doen, donzig, schrikachtig,
die iemand je nog brengt?

Toon Tellegen

@->->-

Smiling by Russel H. Conwell

Smiling is infectious, you catch it like the flu.
When someone smiled at me today, I started smiling, too.

I passed around the corner and someone saw my grin
when he smiled, I realized I'd passed it on to him!

I thought about that smile and then realized its worth,
a single smile, just like mine, could travel round the earth.

So, if you feel a smile begin, don't leave it undetected,
let's start an epidemic quick, and get the world infected!
Literally and figuratively strapping girl, searching for beautifull new friends...

Love to practise my English in chatting and mailing ;-)

I want to admire, amaze and wonder...
I want to be admired, amazed and wondered...
I want to affect and to be affected...

I want to feel with my head an think with my heart, I do, I try... sometimes they are confused, my heart feels that my head thinks that my heart isn't thinking. My heart knows that my head is having a hard time and my heart forgives...

-<-<-@

there is silence between you and me
does that frighten you?
let there be silence between you and me
a silence in where we share, enjoy
and know: all is well
(aw2003)

Smiling by Russel H. Conwell

Smiling is infectious, you catch it like the flu.
When someone smiled at me today, I started smiling, too.

I passed around the corner and someone saw my grin
when he smiled, I realized I'd passed it on to him!

I thought about that smile and then realized its worth,
a single smile, just like mine, could travel round the earth.

So, if you feel a smile begin, don't leave it undetected,
let's start an epidemic quick, and get the world infected!

What I’m doing with my life

I have an ictjob, within a construction company, all kinds of voluntary. The nicest is organizing vacations for disabled youngsters with the Wielewaal. Further working with youngsters and some activities at the castle in my village,

I love to hang out with friends, talking, going out, playing board games, having fun.

One of my hobbies is photography, next to that all kind of things, walking, cinema, theatre, reading, talking with friends, cooking, sauna, surfing around on the internet: check my fotoblog http://anfotoblog.blogspot.com/ sorry it's in Dutch, but pictures are universal....

I’m really good at

photography, writing, listening and many many things more ;-)

The first things people usually notice about me

ehhh my figure, I'm a bbw, my laugh, people tell me it's contagious, my warmth... What do you notice?

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books
almost everything, fantasy, literature, spiritual books, lord of the rings, harry potter, cornelia funke, als dan brown (bernini m. was my favorite), saskia noort (dutch), paulo coelho, marianne frederikson, eckhart tolle, toon tellegen or jan siebelink (both dutch), always reading something

Music
so much... duffy, colbie callait, jewel, tracey chapman, james morrison, james blunt, u2, acda & de munnik(dutch) , george michael, BAP (du kannst zaubere.. wonderfull) Melissa Etheridge (you can sleep while I drive.. love the feeling) but also soul, (a bit wrong) disco, classical music

Movies,
Als all kind of thongs, feel good movies, but also a bit more action, Johnny Depp very nice! Would love to watch the Lord of the rings with you ;-)

Food
Everythig that's made with love by me, you or together. Ehh no sprouts and some other thins probably ;-)

The six things I could never do without

ehhh...
...to begin with, me! If I lose myself I'm lost!
...people, like friends, family or just a smile in the streets
...laughing and crying, emotion
...outside, going, looking, being...
...to be continued ;-)

I spend a lot of time thinking about

live, sometimes about nothing ;-)

On a typical Friday night I am

Mostly at home, after a hard weeks work, alone or with friends, sometimes I'm going out. Depending on what occurs...

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Maybe when I know you better ;-)

You should message me if

If you like me ofcourse ;-)