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riverofzen

57 / M / straight / Single

Hilo, Hawaii

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 3" (1.90m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Casual sex
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Buddhism and laughing about it
Sign
Sagittarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of college/university
Job
Banking / Financial / Real Estate
Income
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English

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I am outgoing, sexy, and happy.

My Self-Summary

Aloha, my name is Rick. What makes me happy? Looking into the eyes of my beloved and seeing contentment and excitement, dancing in the moonlight, travel and adventure, being financially stable, sculptures by Bernini, catching a good wave in warm ocean water, connecting with friends and family, being in good shape, laying under a tree and feeling connected to the universe, reading and learning, holding my lover in my arms and feeling our aliveness, going deep inside myself and connecting with the place of oneness and awareness. I moved to Hawaii in 2004 from San Francisco because I love it here , but I love almost everywhere that I am. For the past 24 years I have been a successful professional with my own business and was happy to see work slow last year, freeing up time to travel to places in the world that I had not yet experienced. I have just returned from a 10 month journey to India, Nepal, Turkey, Italy, Greece, Spain and Egypt. This stage of life is a good time to enjoy all that we have built over the years and I am thankful for all of the experiences that have brought me to this place in life. I appreciate a women who is accomplished, smart and enjoys adventure. I am romantic and enjoy pleasing a women and enjoying pleasure. I love learning to be joyful and have taken the opportunities over the years to learn tantra with Margo Ananad, lucid dreaming, classes on intimacy, radical awakening, non-violent communication, Buddhist studies and many other playshops and classes.
I left a large community of conscious friends when I moved here, we would meet once a month, and I would love to find connection here in Hawaii on a deep level

What I’m doing with my life

I am not sure that I want to restart my old business, so, while not burning any bridges, I am looking around at the options, and thinking about starting something new. I have been away almost a year and just got back a few weeks ago, there were a lot of changes in America while I was gone.

I’m really good at

Fun and vacation, letting go and going with the flow. I'm great at travel and adventure. I'm good interpersonal relationships, at letting things go if there is a dissagrement, I don't hold on to sadness, I do not do anger ( I used to, but found it very counter productive and generally a leftover from old patterns that no longer are in my life.)
I'm very good at making a women safe to let herself be open and expressive, feel loved and desired, content and satisified.

The first things people usually notice about me

I have nice blue eyes, I'm tanned and tall. I'm open and optimistic. I laugh a lot and don't take much seriously.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I love reading so there are too many books. Right now I'm reading Henry Miller, Susanne Summers health dooks, world histories. Love movies too, except horror (it gives me bad dreams). I really like all kinds of music, even some rap. I think that musicians are artists and they put a lot of their soul into what they do so I respect all music, even if I don't listen to some types very much. I like the grateful dead a lot because I grew up with those guys, Dylan, neil yong, van Morrison, joanie michell, its a long list. I like to cook, i like indian, ethopian, seafood. food is good and fun. I like whipped cream on bodies.

The six things I could never do without

I'm more into experiences than things but here goes: books and the library, pillows, eggplant, jetplanes, shade, breathing and kissing.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

New ideas, travel, alternative futures, friends and family..

On a typical Friday night I am

watching a movie or reading, talking with friends, a walk on the beach.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

ask me anything, I'll tell you the truth, even if i put my foot in my mouth.

You should message me if

You would like to get together and find out if there is chemistry and an attraction, or just want to talk. I love to meet people and learn from their experiences and lives.