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26 Seattle, WA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 24–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:34pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Dropped out of two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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What's up? I'm from Oregon. I like cats and books, coffee and tea. I'm balding, feminist, have a mental illness, unemployed, don't like having a beard, like cats too much, don't have a car, and probably suck in the sack. Who knew? You'd better get out while you can. Or stealth your way into my life.

More than anything I'm looking for friends. Spent enough time in less-than-genuine relationships, am no longer that desperate. How pained but positive are you?

I like: art stuff, makeup and fashion, mental bubbles, studying the properties of light and sound, the beauty of rhythm, the growth of plants and trees, the growth of people, the strength of effective communication, sunshine and rain
What I’m doing with my life
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Learning to be a person. Listening to people. Art and philosophy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
negating internal assumptions
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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múm and similar kick music-wise lately. Always hiphop/rap. Home cooking, incense, spicy, sweet, affection. Silence, quiet, body-thumping noise. I favor plenty, but especially love mangos

Food wise I'm not picky, so I try new things without restraint.

Shows: Seinfeld, Golden Girls, GoT, True Detective

Few movies: Beasts of the Southern Wild, Mind Game, Ashes and Snow, Eternal Sunshine, others

Some things I read: Tao Te Ching, Li Sao, The Wisdom of Insecurity, Left Hand of Darkness, Wuthering Heights, Kiss of the Spider Woman, manga occasionally (Junji Itoh comes to mind, or Battle Angel Alita—I love the roller derby segment), political philosophy, spiritul philosophy, art history and analysis, tech papers, independently authored textbooks, coffee grounds and tea leaves
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
snug laces, cat claws, color, sharing, laughter, caffeine
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The transcendent nature of a message containing only 'sup'.

Social context, the strategy of communicating ideas through art. Breathing, nature, nuance. Helpful things like tools and discourse following established instinct.

How to be wealthy without having anything.

The strength of memory and whether my brain is normal. Paternal history of schizophrenia has led me to believe my life and whole perception of reality is less than normal. But sometimes I remember we're all in this together, and get confident again. Seattle has been good for me. Needless to say I feel like a real shit most of the time.

So. I think a lot about perception, sociology, communication, relationships, teaching and therapy, patterns, and Tao.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
asking myself: do I really want to dance, or do I want to run until I burn up into a million little butterflies of ash and smoke?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
There is a lot of fucked up shit in this world for you to worry about more important than whether I'm worth sharing your life with. I want to meet someone that understands this, or strives to understand. Then we can relax together.

Just go with what excites you most. I love, make fun, explore. I value individuals, so I'd rather know you and encourage you to keep it up. Not into that? Don't date me, nothing lost.