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26 Seattle, WA Gender Nonconforming, Man

Gender Nonconforming, Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:20pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Dropped out of two-year college
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I love tea, coffee, nature. I'm nerdy, but also about non-tech things: teaching, perspective, compassion, knowledge. Everything is interesting.

I am dissatisfied with society and doing my best to help.

Unfortunately, this site makes me feel dumb. I'm not here for sex. Maybe you feel the same.

I honestly don't give a fuck about the oxford comma. I can't believe that has become a meme.
What I’m doing with my life
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Stuff. Being human. I program, write, make art. If you're creative or set yourself apart from social norms, we'll probably get along.

Part of the week I dedicate to software development, part to freelance, and sometimes a little bit to game development. Right now I'm making a painting app. Feel free to judge, but programming is like knitting and I'm fucking broke / self taught.

I often read alone in coffee shops. I don't socialize much.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Not finishing books because I'm too busy catching up on twitter.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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hip-hop, post-rock, cat power, metric, kate bush, (...)

Cooking I love, but tend to keep my own meals simple. I'm not picky, either. Spicy's good, veggies are good.

I like movies that show the inner lives of people. Weird mind game movies with romance threads are generally my favorite. I also like movies with family themes or spooky psychological horror.

Some fiction: Parable of the Sower, The Left Hand of Darkness, The Kite Runner, Kiss of the Spider Woman
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
steeped leaves, solitude,
snug laces and cat claws
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Social context and the strategy of communicating ideas through art. Helpful things like tools and discourse following established instinct (ie, UX). How to be wealthy without having anything.

I like to think about brains, the universe, and the responsibility of humanity as a conscious force, but don't know enough about neuroscience to make any claims that aren't totally new-agey, yet.

Often in dream I hang out with my cat that disappeared.

I personally dream of an aware society free of archaic prejudice of any kind. (incl. ableism, sexism, classism, racism)

Sometimes I think about how dealing with the rottenness of society threatens to infect and rot you out right back. I think a lot about what motivates both cruelty and fear. I try to let go of my distrust, but I have been shown repeatedly that it is worth it to assume the worst.

It's not that I live in fear... I actually think people have a lot of good in them. But I have found the 'nice', 'normal' people of Seattle to be very timid, passive, fearful, and alarmingly overpolite. I just don't care for that sort of self-serving dishonesty.

I probably belong on another planet.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Reacting to phantom vibrations and wondering what happened to that cat.
You should message me if
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You think you can handle this kind of despondency.
I am also no stranger to adventures involving:

- working in proximity
- weed and art shows
- tea and cat petting
- burritos and parks
- whiskey at home
- yoga and meditation
- music and making out
- coffee and conversation
- bad dates with okay people