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26 M Seattle, WA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Sep 29
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Dropped out of two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Exhausted with realization, pinned down by excess, seeking more than ingress, I want to explore.

Portland transplant, like Seattle better. I've dated a few people here and it's been good. Then my cat of seven years died, and everyone I was seeing broke up with me. I'm still planning the pity party but you're welcome to come. BYOB.

Teaching and learning is important to me.

My sense of humor can be stifling... it's never too soon and nothing is offensive. I will never make a derogatory joke.

Surreal wordplay/poetry is a thing.

The best advice I can give anyone is to be absolutely terrible. Reject all notions and define yourself by your own terms.
What I’m doing with my life
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Being cozy, indoors and out. Learning guitar, cooking. Listening to people that want to talk. Successful attempts at work and positivity. Fantasizing about strangers on the internet.

I feel that persons of free of oppression are liable, for the progress of humanity, to reinforce the continual integration of more and more people into equal absence of oppression. This means: if you have the capacity to be happy and listen, influencing others positively, do it. Why else are you here.

I'm good at letting interests go. Artfulness, however, is integral. What else am I going to do.

I walk a hell of a lot.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Everything. I'm very human. I'm good at fighting, running, giving in. Believing in equality and respect. I like to follow some rules and break the rest. Yeah, I'm queer. Yeah, I'm into kink. Of course I drink and smoke. Of course I'm feminist. How could I not be. Of course I'm an artist. That's my raison d'être. I don't even know how to pronounce that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Mogwai, Modest Mouse, Pink Floyd, Beatles, DMB, Fleetwood Mac, chiptunes, rap, classical, folk, metal, Agalloch. Home cooking, incense, spicy flavors, sweet goods, savory goods. Silence, quiet, body-thumping noise. I favor plenty. Mangos. If you come to my house, we're having a mango.

I love cooking and am learning more. I'm not picky and still eat failed dishes, so I try new things without restraint. Come teach me something in the kitchen.

Forever: Seinfeld, Golden Girls

Watch: Eternal Sunshine, Beasts of the Southern Wild, MindGame, Ashes and Snow, True Detective, others

Read: Left Hand of Darkness, Wuthering Heights, Kiss of the Spider Woman, manga occasionally, political philosophy, spiritul philosophy, art history and analysis
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
puer (tea), questions, color, sharing, laughter, pets.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Social context. How a lack of privacy is becoming accepted. I feel like the less private we become, the more willing we are to share personal data with companies and strangers, the less attached to our own egos we become, and foresee full and unashamed transparency in everyone's personal life in the future, presented to a world without judgment. Last bit is the hard part.

How to communicate ideas through art. Breathing, nature, nuance. Helpful things like tools and discourse. Instinct.

Lately I'm always wondering what my next date will be like. Bad dates are generally still okay. People are interesting, and it's not about the perfection of a person or experience in comparison to your expectations (the first mistake), but that you had it, met them, and hopefully came out on top with a better understanding your own wants.

I've also been working from home and thinking about where I want to live in the world. Vancouver is close and seems pleasant. Maybe somewhere south of London? What about Australia, or NZ? Italy? Sweden? Iceland? I'll give each a year.

The prevalence of beards and beard love in this city makes me queasy. You have every idea how shitty it feels to be reduced to meat for your sex characteristics and appearance, and I LOVE that this beard thing is teaching me that agony.

That said I will let it grow out for you if you ask nicely.

Answer: definition, perception, painting, sociology, communication, ideology, relationships, infinity
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
asking myself: do I really want to dance, or do I want to run until I burn up into a million little butterflies of ash and smoke?

There is a lot of fucked up shit in this world for you to worry about more important than whether I'm worth fucking or sharing your life with. I want to meet someone that understands this. Or fucking strives to understand. Then we can relax together.

Just go with what excites you most. I love, I make fun, I explore. I value personal development, so I'm gonna get to know you and encourage you to keep it up. Not into that? Don't date me, nothing lost. Autonomy is zen like that.
You should message me if
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you wanna be the 0.0001% that does