I always knew my decisions were not typical for most men, it seems that our past shapes who we are and it takes someone with some previous damage to build character and empathy for the plight of others' and better ways to live this life.
I have accepted the fact that doing the right thing for your kiddos is the right thing to do but it is the hardest form of social leprosy to live with. Maybe that's why this is the road less travelled? It gets travelled alone. Who wants to pick up the pieces and date someone with kids? At least most guys are a horny lot and will tolerate almost anything to not have to sleep alone.
Laid back when I'm not kickin butts and takin names! Driven and motivated to succeed at making the world a better place... I have built my empire of Legos into a Death star. Bwahaahaahaahaa
This is gonna be fun!