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34 M Seattle, WA

My Details

Last Online
Mar 30
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Other, and laughing about it
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English, French, Arabic, Spanish

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My self-summary
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I moved back to the States after living abroad for many years. I love to travel any chance I can.
Seattle is a great place; would like to meet more people and get beyond the "Seattle Freeze".
I like to keep everyday life simple and spontaneous. With structured goals, naturally. Also I like to laugh with friends over good stories, hang out for happy hour on the Hill, seeing movies. LOVE SIFF. Have been going for a long time....

Don't be shy about messaging me; I am pretty relaxed & open-minded.

Essentially, I am a curious, independent, and progressive individual.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a research consultant working on risk assessment. Just finished my grad degree in health sciences.
Previously I worked at the US Embassy in Paris.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening to other people, finding jobs for other people, math, putting things together (e.g. cooking, puzzles) and telling stories about my travels and misadventures
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I am tall and reddish blond, and in shape.
That I smile a lot & wear glasses.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Sounds like Facebook, check there
(here's a hint: Anais Nin & R. Arenas are on the top of my reading list;
Earth & Mulholland Drive on my movie list) I prefer autobios/memoirs over novels. I am pretty well-read.
Food: I eat most anything, from anywhere! Really like Thai, or Japanese is a favorite, too. Can go high-brow (e.g. Place Pigalle) or low-brow....not picky with food. Getting more into beers & wines. Love a Gin & Tonic anytime.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
One: downtime
Two: my friends
Three: my mom (two & three are tied)
Four: love
Five: respect
Six: world peace

Let's talk abt the rest over dinner....(somebody told me these are not "things" however I answered intuitively like this, so I am sticking with them! ;)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to keep life natural and feel content. How to help people who are less fortunate. I believe in giving back to the community....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends or watching a movie
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am here looking for a bf. Let's face it, it's hard to meet awesome guys off-line; happens rarely in Seattle (compared to say, Miami or LA). If you're just looking for hook-ups on OKC, I'm not your guy. Also I am ddf, neg, hope you are, too.

Facial hair is hot. Bear or not, whatever, but I like mustaches or goatees.

One small thing: I have been on at least several dates from OKC where guys go into stories about their exes, usually bad stories. I don't think exes are an appropriate first date topic--so please keep those stories for your friends. Thanks!

Also I have met a handful of guys from OKC who are in counseling or on psych meds. I would prefer to meet guys who have their issues sorted out as this makes the basis for a healthy, positive relationship. Thanks for understanding!
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 28–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have a big heart, positive, mind-body conscious, are generous, read for fun and like to travel to foreign places (beyond Canada! lol). Not afraid of a little adventure---you only live once! Prefer more masculine, low-drama guys. If you'd like to learn more, just shoot me a message.