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35 Baltimore, MD Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

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Last Online
Today – 8:34am
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Other, and laughing about it
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English, French, Arabic, Spanish

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My self-summary
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I moved back to the States after living abroad for many years, so I love to travel any chance I can. I would like to find someone who is game for traveling, both domestically but also internationally. On my bucket list: Japan, Korea, Brazil, Argentina, Bali, the "Stans," Sweden & Denmark, Georgia, Botswana, get the drift. ;)

I like to keep everyday life simple. Also I like to laugh with friends over good stories, hang out for happy hour, seeing movies.

Don't be shy about messaging me; I am pretty relaxed & open-minded.

In a nutshell I am a naturally curious, independent, and (politically) progressive individual. I do think that one person can make a difference and have seen it happen many times over the years.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work in health research at a university.
Previously I worked as an English instructor and bureaucrat.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening to others, very resourceful, math, putting things together (e.g. cooking, puzzles) and telling stories about my travels, adventures and occasional misadventures. I speak several languages...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I am tall and reddish blond, and in shape.
That I smile a lot & wear glasses.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like writers who are a little bit edgy and present a new style. Anais Nin, William Burroughs, Jimmy Baldwin & Reinaldo Arenas are on the top of my reading list; Like the classics & modern. I have way too many books. I prefer autobios/memoirs over novels--for example, I have a vivid memory of reading Tracy Emin's memoir. It wasn't particularly well-written, but it was very original and personal.

Earth, Amelie, the English Patient & Mulholland Drive on my movie list. I used to be a volunteer interpreter at the Seattle Film Fest, so yes, really, really like movies. A few years ago, I went to visit "Rick's Cafe" from Casablanca in the city of the same name. What a great experience!!
Food: I eat most anything, from anywhere! Really like Thai, or Japanese is a favorite, too. Can go high-brow or low-brow....not picky with food. Getting more into beers & wines. Love a Gin & Tonic anytime.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
One: my friends
Two: my mom (one & two are closely tied)
Three: mutual respect
Four: love
Five: world peace & culturally understanding
Six: downtime

Let's talk about the rest over dinner....(somebody told me these are not "things," however, I answered intuitively like this, so I am sticking with them! ;)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to keep life natural and feel content. How to help people who are less fortunate. I believe in giving back to the community....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends or watching a movie
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am here looking for a bf. Let's face it, it's usually hard to meet awesome guys off-line. If you're just looking for hook-ups on OKC, I'm not your guy. Also I am ddf, neg, so hope you are, too. Not into pot or poppers. Cigarettes don't bother me that much (outside, etc.)

Facial hair is hot. Bear or not, whatever, but I like mustaches or goatees. Not required either ;)

One small thing: I have been on at least several dates from OKC where guys go into stories about their exes, usually bad stories. I don't think exes are an appropriate/romantic first date topic--so please keep those stories for your friends or a later time when we know each other better. Thanks for understanding!
You should message me if
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You have a big heart, positive, mind-body conscious, are generous, read for fun and like to travel to foreign places (beyond Canada! lol). Not afraid of a little adventure---you only live once! Prefer more masculine, low-drama guys. If you'd like to learn more, just shoot me a message.

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