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rjk1002

40 Cambridge, UK Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 25–49
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Nov 24
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Skinny
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
$70,000–$80,000
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), C++ (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I’m a computer programmer by hobby and by trade. I’ve been fascinated by these devices and what can be done with them since I was a child. They’ve repaid the attention well.

I’m an amateur photographer. I bought myself a decent camera some years ago and have been clicking away happily ever since. My photos can be found on flickr, tumblr and my own website.

I've mostly been read history lately, though I’ve amassed a great deal of SF over the years too, among other bits and pieces. Political biographies occasionally catch my attention too; politicians are a lot less dull when writing for posterity rather than speaking for the headlines. (I can’t help but feel that on the whole they were much more interesting in the 1980s.)

I’ve managed to grow a few edible or attractive things in the garden. Most recently: sugar snap peas and strawberries.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work for a large company, writing and debugging computer programs.

My hobby programming has gone in all sorts of directions but most recently I’ve been interested in doing things that produce some kind of visually pleasing result - photomosaics and fractals, for instance.

I share a house with my girlfriend; we are in a polyamorous relationship. I’m looking for anyone from a new friend to a new lover.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I occasionally have some luck with pointing a camera in the right direction. At least two people here are using pictures I’ve taken on their profile (no, neither of them are me)...
The first things people usually notice about me
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My hat?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I’m not sure I really do favorites. There’s so much I haven’t seen (read, etc) and so much that hasn’t even been created yet.

But some things I do keep coming back to. Trainspotting, The Big Lebowski, Heathers and the three Star Wars films are old friends, as are Red Dwarf and Blackadder. Dipping less far back into time, I could happily watch Buffy The Vampire Slayer from start to finish again. Lately I’ve been watching Weeds (for the first time) and Northern Exposure (for the second), and greatly enjoying both.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books, computers, company, err.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Most recently, probably watching an episode or two of Northern Exposure or the latest DVD to arrive in the post.
You should message me if
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You should message me if you just want a chat, or are looking for new friends, or anything else.