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37 M Rochester, NY

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:03pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I grew up in the inner city of Rochester in a diverse/rough neighborhood but spent many redneck weekends in the country. I was a minority and outsider in every school I went to until college and by then just kind of stuck to my own thing. I feel that really defines much about me which is why I feel like I don't belong anywhere especially as I get older the more things/people/ideas get more homogeneous.

I am a routine hound who works 8-10 hours a day as a mechanical engineer then trains Muay Thai and Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu afterwords. My week is all business so I can soak up as much guilt free debauchery as I can on the weekends. My nights are spent relaxing with documentaries or researching ideas.

I am always looking to break out of my self imposed routines given I have someone to share the experience with. I seek epic adventures and sublime moments to get lost in. You never have to twist my arm to do something fun and crazy or intellectual and laid back. I am the responsible misfit. I am the amiable deviant. I am the lawful malefactor.

"There he goes. One of God's own prototypes. A high-powered mutant of some kind never even considered for mass production. Too weird to live, and too rare to die. " - Raoul Duke
What I’m doing with my life
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Keeping my wallet fat, my body right and my mind expanding. I live very simply in order to keep the bills to a minimum which allows me to travel about once a month and still put money in the bank. I am constantly pushing my body to limits to test my mental endurance as fear is the mind killer. I listen to many podcasts done by comics, musicians, scientists and intellectuals in order to enlighten myself on new ways of looking at things.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Throwing myself into the deep end of the pool and managing to tread the water. The more I jump into the void the more I find myself feeling more confident about doing such things and everything else in my life.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I think most people are intimidated by my stern appearance, but in reality if spoken to, my smile pops out and wont stop talking.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I typically am reading something on history, engineering handbooks about a subject I want to mess around with or mind state related material.

The movies I watch are typically documentaries, sci-fi and independent films.

I love the History and Discovery Channel. HBO was killing it for years with The Wire, OZ, Rome, etc. Hell on Wheels, Breaking Bad and The Walking Dead have struck my fancy recently.

I am all over the board with music.

I love to eat and eat just about anything.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Drinking water, laughter, masturbation, food, contemplation, physical exertion.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If Rochester is where I want to be. The next trip I want to go on. Getting out of work so I can go train. How awesome it will be when I find the right girl for me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Low key stuff like catching a movie and eating a quality meal since I am shot from training and working all week.Saturday night is my going out night and I am usually at the local goth/industrial club drinking $2 pints of Labatt Blue, standing in the cut and listening to good music. I also like to go see live band music to which I dance my heart out like I am a bull in a china shop since DJ music lacks the soul I need for me to let loose the juice.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Those things come up in conversation since I am pretty open book about things.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. have your life in order, take care of your body, seek adventure and desire mental expansion.