Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Before you start reading, know that I am looking for a serious
relationship. I am looking to be a choice rather than an option. I
would like to find someone that I can share life with, wake up to,
love without reservations, cook for regularly, and rely on when it
counts. I want someone who accepts my faults as a package deal with
my strengths, and is willing to allow me to do the same for them.
If you are unavailable from a prior relationship, or just looking
for a free meal/drink, take your drama elsewhere.
I am a country boy at heart forced to work in the city (Reston). I
have three sons that I spend a lot of time with and am looking for
a drama free partner to enjoy life with. I really want to make a
friend first and then see where it goes. Chemistry is required
though. You MUST value integrity, truth, and have commitment to
hold yourself to those values.
At the end of the day, I want to meet people that are looking for
lifetime relationships, be they friendships or a lifelong romance.
I will tell you quickly if I think we have a potential future and
that is your time to decide whether to be honest with me and with
yourself. If you are waffling, admit it openly and do not lie. I
have dealt with too many liars in my lifetime and the first lie
will probably get the door closed on you whether you want it closed
If life is the canvas, then passion is the paint, and logic keeps
it all between the lines... My passion runneth over sometimes, but
the logic is not far behind... :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am an analyst by trade and work supporting the Department of
Defense in Northern Virginia, while living in the good city of
Palmyra. Raising 5 goats, and 10 chickens, with one pregnant doe.
Have three sons (9, 11, 13) that I spend a lot of time with on the
weekends and on Wednesdays. My time is cramped with a long commute,
but I enjoy every possible minute when I am back here in the rural
areas. I move to a larger farm in Ivy here in August (125 acres)
and will be able to have a nice garden for fall crops, fresh fish
from the pond, and fresh meat from the field. :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I can cook, do simple home repairs, fish, hunt, play poker and
chess, carve, write poetry/prose, sing reasonably well (at least to
my kids' ears), landscape, trim/cut trees... I am usually called a
"Jack of all Trades, Master of Some." I can also listen, without
judgement, as I understand that we all make mistakes, having made a
few myself over the years.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Usually my deep voice and my color-changing eyes. I have been told
that they are hazel when calm, blue when happy, and bright green
when extremely excited (angry or...).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
One of my favorite books is a series by William Johnstone, "Terror
in the Ashes". "The Stand" by Stephen King is another favorite of
mine. I am a fan of Robert Frost and Ernest Hemingway. My favorite
movie spans between "Bigger than the Sky" and "Red Dawn". I also
loved "Ever After" as well as "Independence Day". I do not watch a
lot of new movies, if you can tell. I will change that. :) My
favorite food is Beer Braised Rabbit, or Smothered Chicken, though
I also like some good venison or catfish. Salmon maybe? Hard to
choose. I cook them all though. LOL! I enjoy all music except for
hard rap. Occassionally I will even listen to polka (Da Yoopers,
Weird Al Yankovic), or classical. I definitely move from rock/pop
to country quite regularly. My favorite show is "Big Bang Theory",
though "Scrubs" and "Friends" were favorites as were "NCIS" and "2
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I could never do without the love of my children, someone to talk
with on a regular basis, quiet time on the water or in the woods,
time to wear myself doing something physical (splitting wood, home
improvement, hiking), a belief that there are good people in the
world, and a recognition that these are sometimes hard to find.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think a lot about my kids, my job, and my larger life. I think
about my job, and all the things that I need to do tomorrow to
"save the world", or at least a small part of it. I think about how
to balance work, life, kids, animals... I also think about setting
time aside to avoid thinking... LOL! I think about how best to
invite someone for a breakfast date without it sounding like I just
want to... I spend a lot of time wondering why commitment seems to
be such a large issue for people these days. Age 30 something is
not age early 20 something when dating 14 people is the norm...
Don't complain about lack of commitment if you are unable to commit
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Frankly, working... I work Monday, Tuesday, Thursday and Friday,
and don't get home until the wee hours of the morning.
Occassionally you will find me at Miller's in Charlottesville
having a drink or two to relax a bit if I work longer hours earlier
in the week and cut out early. This schedule is NOT conducive to a
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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On this site? The most private thing that I am willing to admit
openly is that I have all of my private conversations in person,
face to face. I enjoy my privacy and let folks in as trust is
You should message me if
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You are truly looking for a relationship with the potential of
long-term developments, you are not afraid of commitments, you are
not dating 15 people in an attempt to avoid grocery bills, you
really value honesty, you can pass a criminal background check
without a concern, and/or you really find my profile interesting
and just want to talk.
Do not contact me if you are unavailable due to prior
relationships, uncertain of what you want in life, do not believe
that passion is key to a happy life, cannot trust another man, just
want something to eat and an ear to bend... I am here to find
someone to share my life with and I usually know who is or is not a
good candidate after the third date. Do not contact me if you think
text is a good way to discuss a relationship. Do not contact me if
you are only available one night a month... Once again, I am
looking for a companion, not an occasional fling.
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