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rltoltn79

35 M Rancho Cucamonga, CA

I’m looking for

  • Men who like men
  • Ages 24–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 19
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin, White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Well, what to say... I have been very focused on my career and education since I moved away from home twelve years ago. Part of it was to build a foundation of independence for myself financially and professionally. When reflecting, I believe that part of it was to avoid dealing with who I was.

Today, I am glad to say that I have achieved my goals and balanced my life. I have become a successful professional and met my expectations for financial independence. Emotionally, I am grounded, confident and appreciate myself more than I ever have before. I am glad to have hit the 30's mark. I feel that this decade will bring stability as I discover more and more about who I am.

I am not looking for someone to complete me. I am complete. The right person will be someone I appreciate and admire for his own charisma and independence. I am looking for you to compliment my life and I yours. If you think you have what it takes, then take the step and say hi.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
After graduating with my masters, I thought I was done. I was going to use my credential and my education to inspire youth in a classroom setting for the duration of my career.

However, long about the seventh year, I felt that I had a different calling. I knew that I could teach, but could I really be there for a student throughout their career as their number one mentor and support system? I saw it as a new and exciting challenge. I almost immediatley enrolled in a counseling program.

Today, I am a counselor working with an amazing group of students. I appreciate my job and all of the people that I work with. Going to work is a treasure because I truly enjoy what I do.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
living by four major tenants. I feel that life is much simpler than most make it out to be. I appreciate the fact that I have been given life and try to live it fully everyday. Living life fully has a different definition depending on the day. I love all people in my life. That is not to say I always like everyone, but hate is self-distructive. I am a student of life. I learn with each passing moment. I am curious by nature and look to absorb all that I can. I want to take all that I have come to know and give it back to others before my time comes to depart this Earth. If I help just one person, then I feel accomplished.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile and personality.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Harry Potter, Like Water For Chocolate, Bless Me Ultima, Crime and Punishment, Angels & Demons.

Music: Josh Groban, Kristen Chenoweth, Sarah Brightman and anything Broadway, Madonna, Michael Jackson, Glee, Karaoke.

Food: Mexican, American, Italian, limited French, cooked Sushi, Chipotle, little fun hole in the walls.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love, trust, communication, helping others, family, friends.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
those that matter most. I love and appreciate all paths that cross mine. I am finally understanding the balance between my own needs and the needs of others better than ever before.

Today, I remain very spiritually grounded, but I wouldn't say I am religious. I have been jaded by the politics and imperfections of religious dogma that seek to control as opposed to influence curiousity and a true personal relationship with whatever the higher power may be.

I also have a bit of a creative streak. I love to be creative with my friends and family. Whether it be putting on a major musical, singing, acting or writing, I love to get lost in the development of new or different.

One other area that I think a lot about is traveling. I love to travel. I want to explore this world and hope to find someone that has the money and vacation time that I do so that we can do it together.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out to dinner with someone or off to a movie or a theatrical production. I rarely sit at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I may go through life without finding the perfect compliment to share it with.
You should message me if
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You are a complete and grounded person. You have a career or profession that validates who you are. You stand on your own two feet and do not need another to fill a void. When thinking of a relationship, you are looking for someone to enhance your life that is kind, caring, loving, trusting, loyal and grounded. If this is you, then drop me a line and let's chat.