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rmedin19

29 / M / Straight / Single

Aurora, Colorado

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:46pm
Ethnicity
Native American, Hispanic / Latin, White, Other
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I am looking for someone who is willing to be a friend first...

I am a man with a passion for finding the substance of life and a perspective to match. I am not a person who underestimates the power of a good tickle fight or kind word. I wish that more adults remembered how to have the same fun they had in their youth. I will ambush you with a water gun (or nerf gun if you need to be broken in ; ) just to see a little bit of your inner child.

I am looking for that person who loves few but loves well-someone who is emotionally trustworthy. The freedom to open up to someone makes me want to return the favor-watching each other's backs in every aspect of the phrase.

Compassion and purpose fill my day to day life but I am not without the courage to make a stand when needed. Although, it is disguised deep within the inner goofball ; )
What I’m doing with my life
Working on becoming a guinea pig dentist. As of late I run a mechanical pencil repair factory. My ultimate dream is to start the world's first full contact game of musical chairs.
I’m really good at
making people laugh, random fun, reading people, listening, motivation, and personal growth, sticking to my goals, living with a purpose, dressing up when needed, dancing, writing, math, punctuality, preparation, formerly pull-ups , and working myself to the bone just for fun(Sometimes it's nice to remind yourself what you're capable of. ) I am also very good at self improvement and I would love someone to share that path with, after a very strenuous selective ; )
The first things people usually notice about me
For some reason everyone wants to tell me their life story.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite movie: "What the #$*! do we know!"
Musics: Not picky. Everything from journey to some of eminem.
Although I would that if I get married I will dance first with my wife to Exodus by Darius Rucker (After a few dance classes so she knew the moves I was about to spring on her.)
The six things I could never do without
-Family
-purpose
-Someone who trusts me
-music
-Mental challenge
-Time to ponder

I get an extra because I'm a beaner!
-Humor
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My patient care, Amazing jokes, The future of my purpose, The type of person I want to be, the way I want to raise my kids, (if I decide to have any), and what I want to eat (Chipotle or Chinese...or Italian sausage (Palidori!) with onions and mustard on a hot dog bun...Yum. Don't knock it till you try it.). I am also constantly pondering some form of self-improvement for the sheer joy of personal exploration.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out with a friend or two or having some company over, assuming I am not working.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am finally in a place that makes me feel like the person I have always wanted to be. Now I am looking to the next step.

I am a giant goofball that will likely embarrass you by embarrassing myself on a random occasion. It's only for the burning of adrenaline in the pit of my stomach. Hiding behind all of this is a sense of wonder about the world that still rivals that of a child. (Also when I am drunk I get super romantic.)

Sometimes I hide behind sense of humor but I am always calculating something in my head.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–58
  • Near me
  • For new friends, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
you're a fun person with an inner nerd/goofball/weirdo that's begging to be let out. Someone who can go to the museum and play laser tag all in the same day... I am not so much into girls who act like ladies, unless you get me convinced that it's just because you're shy and your fun side comes out when you're with someone that makes you feel safe. That can be fun.

Biggest turn on: Someone with a purpose or a goal.

Biggest turn off: Someone looking to impress instead of looking for someone who is a good match. (Relax, It's not a reflection of you if someone isn't attracted to you.)

Also, if I ask you on a date and your best game is the dress-to-impress strategy I'd still recommend bringing your personality in your purse. Pretty women are a dime a dozen these days. I'll take the fun and genuine average looking girl over the hot boring or fake girl any day.

Right now I am just looking for someone to hang out with that has the potential to turn into either a friend or something more, and have a hell of a lot of fun until then. PLEASE PLEASE BE WILLING TO BECOME A CHERISHED FRIEND IF YOU MESSAGE ME. I need to be your friend first.