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31 M Indianapolis, IN

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:17pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Nice guy here, with a bit of a bite.

If you can make me laugh, you've won me over. Just make sure I'm laughing with you and not at you.

I'm an INFJ, if you're into that sort of thing. Currently working in higher education, and I love it. I can be a little reserved at first. Most of my friends would say this is a bold-faced lie, but that's just because they've gotten to know me.
What I’m doing with my life
Slowly making the world a better place, one frustrated college student at a time. It's a lot of work involving minimal gratitude. Somebody has to do it though, so it might as well be me.

Working on a Master's in Adult Education. I'm the hippy kind of teacher; I like to talk about feelings.
I’m really good at
Making other people laugh
being a friend, pal and/or buddy
throwing a party
understanding the subtext of books, movies and social situations
cooking and baking
making lists
returning emails and/or text messages.
The first things people usually notice about me
That my hair is doing something crazy. That could just be the first thing I notice about myself though.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
books--The Poisonwood Bible, English Patient, The Alchemist, Plague
of Doves, Beloved, The Giving Tree, Harry Potter, Dark Materials, The Handmaid's Tale, and what I refer to as "the Dragon Books"
Poetry of Adrienne Rich, Louise Gluck, Mary Oliver and William Carlos Williams. Also, some Neruda every now and then.

movies--Little Children, Almost Famous, Adventures in Babysitting,
Dick, Wet Hot American Summer, The Ice Storm, Life as a House, and Grumpy Old Men and Grumpier Old Men

tv shows--Trueblood, Six Feet Under, Battlestar Galactica, Modern
Family, Simpsons, Glee, Arrested Development, United States of Tara, Walking Dead.

music--I tend to listen to stuff with the voice in the front seat and the beat in the back.
The six things I could never do without
frozen custard
something to look forward to
time alone
a good book
I spend a lot of time thinking about

How I can actively participate in creating a culture of love.

why more people don't want to marry bell hooks. I sure do!
On a typical Friday night I am
Out and about town. This isn't standard for me, but since I just moved to a new city I'm trying to expand my social circles. In a couple of months, it will probably be relaxing at home
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a sucker for a guy with his dog. Gets me every single time.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 24–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
I'm not going to explain it to you. If you can't think of a good reason, then you probably shouldn't :)