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38 Asheville, NC Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Yesterday – 6:31pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Graduated from high school
Entertainment / Media
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
So, I've been off and on okcupid for a while now. I've met a few cool people, and some not so cool. I guess I remain on this site because you never know who you may meet, but the chances of finding that special someone here seem pretty slim. So here I am, single & ready to mingle...haha!!

I work quite a bit, so I don't really have the time to go out and meet people, hence the reason I'm online dating. I'm a one woman guy, I date to mate, not for sport. Very down to earth, open minded, and very affectionate, and looking for the same in a woman. Looking for someone who would actually want to meet in person for coffee to see if there's any chemistry, instead of enduring weeks of online chatting/texting. I feel you can't truly get to know someone if you're stuck behind a computer/phone screen. I'm looking for someone who doesn't mind initiating interest, or sending the first message, as I've grown tired of sending the first message with no responses. Some guys like to be equally pursued as well...So, if you're interested, feel free to message away!

Likes: Classic sitcoms & comedy movies, dining out, coffee, Funk, Contemporary Jazz, New Jack Swing, 70s/80s rock/pop & classic Hip hop music, UNC Basketball, Krispy Kreme Doughnuts, Pro Wrestling, Holding hands, kissing, snuggling, shopping, people watching.

Dislikes: Drama, hypocrisy, 90s-current pop & trap music, lack of authenticity, spiders, rats, snakes, opposums, trend followers, racism, hummus, Real Housewives of (fill in the blank), discrimination of any kind, the affectionless, judgmental & emotionless.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Being a wedding singer!! (Insert joke here)

I'm a R&B/Funk producer, singer/songwriter & performer who is in 3 bands: Lead Male Vocalist in a wedding/private party band, Vocalist/Producer/Songwriter in a banjo/hip hop fusion band, and producer/vocalist/songwriter in my own band that plays my original tunes. Have been doing this for the past decade and have been successful, and still pushing toward bigger goals. If you'd like to hear some of my work, you can check it out at or

I also have a regular job :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Creating smooth & funky tunes, singing, being observant & a great listener, snuggling, working with electronics, kissing, Being me!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My thick southern accent. Most people say my appearance doesn't match my voice, whatever that means...
My dimples
My reticence, which is often mistaken for being snobby & unapproachable, which is far from the about a blessing and a curse at the same time...haha!!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Movies: 80's & 90's comedies, action & some drama
Shows: Cosby, Seinfeld, Frasier & other classic sitcoms , Music Documentaries, UNC Basketball, Dallas Cowboys Football, Wrestling
Music: 70's, 80's & 90's music, Old school R&B, Funk. Conscious Hip Hop, Contemporary/Smooth Jazz, some House & some classic rock. I DESPISE TODAY'S TOP 40 AND TRAP MUSIC. Keep it away!!!

Favorites include: Levert, Hall & Oates, Doobie Brothers, The Whispers, Steely Dan, Teena Marie, Al B. Sure, DJ Quik, Tribe Called Quest, Outkast, De La Soul, Pete Belasco, Bob Baldwin, Don Blackman, Dam-Funk, W.Ellington Felton, Erykah Badu, Jill Scott
Food: Almost anything, I like to cook...nothing like a home cooked meal!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Peace of mind, Food, Family, Affection, Music, Sleep
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Music, family, the future.
Why do a lot of women here say they're open minded, yet they don't date outside of their race?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't do the club & bar scene. Since I'm single I'm usually a homebody so it varies...if I'm not playing a gig I'm usually relaxing at home, or I may go & support my musical family if they're playing somewhere. If I'm in a relationship, I enjoy bowling, taking scenic drives/walks, dining out, shopping, and people watching :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I suck at flirting because I'm shy at first...
I'm a sucker for a good kisser :)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're actually willing to meet within the first week of speaking on here. I'm not looking for a text buddy or online pal. This is a DATING site!
You're interested :)
You actually filled out your profile and have pictures where I can actually see you.
You have no problem sending the first message....some guys like to be pursued and feel wanted as well!
You can say more than "hey", or "sup" if you send me a message
You're actually looking for someone to be with, and not just here to swell your ego
You're not uptight about sex & intimacy....we're all adults here, right??

You do not act "ghetto/ratchet"
You have no anger issues

If you happen to be a fan of late 80s/early 90s New Jack Swing/R&B music, contemporary jazz, funk, pro wrestling, or all of the above, and love affection & get many bonus points :)