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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:55pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from high school
Entertainment / Media
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I like Starbucks, Red Lobster, Smooth Jazz & Pro Wrestling.
I frequently make up funny songs to familiar melodies about things, people, and life situations.
I fart in public and will laugh about it almost every time. (Be careful, I might even blame it on you)
I enjoy singing and dancing in the car, especially when someone's watching.
I make part of my living singing & rappin' for kids.

Now that I have your attention..... 😊

I work quite a bit, so I don't really have the time to go out and meet people, hence the reason I'm online dating. I'm a one woman guy, I date to mate, not for sport. Very down to earth, open minded, super affectionate, and looking for the same in a woman. Intelligence, sense of humor and passionate about life is a must. Looking for someone who would actually want to meet in person for coffee to see if there's any chemistry, instead of enduring weeks of online chatting/texting. I feel you can't truly get to know someone if you're stuck behind a computer/phone screen. I'd love to meet someone with a great sense of humor and a goofy side, because I definitely have one when I warm up to you. I'm looking for someone who doesn't mind initiating interest, or sending the first message, as I've grown tired of sending the first message with no responses. Some guys like to be equally pursued as well...So, if you're interested, feel free to message away!

Likes: Classic sitcoms & comedy movies, dining out, coffee, Funk, Contemporary Jazz, New Jack Swing, 70s/80s rock/pop & classic Hip hop music, UNC Basketball, Krispy Kreme Doughnuts, Pro Wrestling, Holding hands, kissing, snuggling, shopping, people watching.

Dislikes: Drama, hypocrisy, current pop & trap music, lack of authenticity, spiders, rats, snakes, trend followers, ignorance, Real Housewives of (fill in the blank), discrimination of any kind, the affectionless, judgmental & emotionless.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a Funk/R&B/Soul producer, singer/songwriter & performer who juggles several bands: Lead Male Vocalist in a wedding/private party band, touring with a children's hip hop artist/band, and producer/vocalist/songwriter in my own band that plays my original tunes just to name a few. I also sing every Tuesday night at funk jam, and Thursday nights at Jazz Jam. Have been doing music and performing for the past decade and have been successful, yet still pushing toward bigger goals. If you'd like to hear some of my work, you can check it out at or
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Creating smooth & funky tunes, singing, being observant & a great listener, snuggling, working with electronics, kissing, Being me!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My thick southern accent. Most people say my appearance doesn't match my voice, whatever that means...
My dimples
My reticence, which is often mistaken for being snobby & unapproachable, which is far from the about a blessing and a curse at the same time...haha!!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: 80's & 90's comedies, action & some drama
Shows: Cosby, Seinfeld, Frasier & other classic sitcoms , Music Documentaries, UNC Basketball, Dallas Cowboys Football, Wrestling
Music: 70's, 80's & 90's music, Old school R&B, Funk. Conscious Hip Hop, Contemporary/Smooth Jazz, some House & some classic rock. I DESPISE TODAY'S TOP 40 AND TRAP MUSIC. Keep it away!!!

Favorites include: Levert, Hall & Oates, Doobie Brothers, The Whispers, Steely Dan, Teena Marie, Al B. Sure, DJ Quik, Tribe Called Quest, Outkast, De La Soul, Pete Belasco, Bob Baldwin, Don Blackman, Dam-Funk, W.Ellington Felton, Erykah Badu, Jill Scott
Food: Almost anything, I like to cook...nothing like a home cooked meal!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Peace of mind, Food, Family, Affection, Music, Sleep
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Music, family, the future.
Why do a lot of women here say they're open minded, yet they don't date outside of their race?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't do the club & bar scene. Since I'm single I'm usually a homebody so it varies...if I'm not playing a gig I'm usually relaxing at home, or I may go & support my musical family if they're playing somewhere. If I'm in a relationship, I enjoy bowling, taking scenic drives/walks, dining out, shopping, and people watching :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I suck at flirting because I'm shy at first...
I'm a sucker for a good kisser :)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're actually looking for a mate here, not just a friend.

You're actually willing to meet within the first week of speaking on here. I'm not looking for a text buddy or online pal. This is a DATING site!
You're interested :)
You actually filled out your profile and have pictures where I can actually see you.
You have no problem sending the first message....some guys like to be pursued and feel wanted as well!
You can say more than "hey", or "sup" if you send me a message
You're actually looking for someone to be with, and not just here to swell your ego
You're not uptight about sex & intimacy....we're all adults here, right??

You do not act "ghetto/ratchet"
You have no anger issues

If you happen to be a fan of late 80s/early 90s New Jack Swing/R&B music, contemporary jazz, funk, pro wrestling, or all of the above, and love affection & get many bonus points :)