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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35-47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 20
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Average build
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
If you can't tell by my photo's, I love to travel and it is my number one passion. I try to take a trip about once a month. I am working on retiring in seven years, then I will travel non-stop.

I am easily entertained and so that has allowed me to have a lot of interesting hobbies. Currently all of my hobbies have become part time jobs. I have about six now and counting. I enjoy them because they allow me to experience new things and meet new people. I also have a full time professional job as a computer programmer so needless to say, I keep myself very busy.

I like to laugh and I have a wacky sense of humor at times. I can also be very low key and serious. Don't take everything I say so literal, I am sometimes just making a joke. I also tend to struggle in the gay community. I am out and proud but really have a problem with labels. That is probably what will turn me off from a person the quickest if they start trying to put me in a neat little package. I don't identify as masculine or feminine or any of those other popular descriptive words that the gay community likes to use. I am just me, and I like that.

It would be great to meet new friends and hopefully that special someone to go on this amazing journey with me. I am a passionate guy and like others who are also. I like adventure and trying new things. Road trips, camping, hiking, home improvement projects, and amusement parks are all right by me. I always say, I will either have a good time or I will have a great story. I am somewhat old fashioned and can be conservative in my actions therefore, I don't do any drugs and don't drink a lot. The simple things in life are what excites me so I don't need all of that other stuff.

I hardly ever make the first move but can be aggressive when I think the time is right. I am an honest person and will usually tell you things about myself that most people keep to themselves. I know this shocks some people but it is who I am.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work a full time job and have a lot of hobbies. My job has become so boring that I don't find it interesting anymore. My hobbies are my life.

When it comes to a relationship, I am not sure where I am on the subject. I would desperately like to be in another long term relationship, one that will last for the rest of my life. To be honest, I have set goals for my future and I am not sure where a relationship fits into that picture. For instance, I plan on retiring early and traveling the world in seven years. I am not sure if finding someone with those same goals in Philly is possible.

I am also not the type to casually date. When I do date, I put everything into it if I feel it is right. Therefore, I would love to meet new close friends and who knows, maybe I will meet one that will fit into my life of adventure.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding good travel deals and navigating a country I have never been to before. I am also a good conversationalist. I ask a lot of questions and am truly interested in learning about a person, but if the conversation becomes one sided then I will get bored and check out. I am really easy to talk to and a lot of people like to listen to my stories.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Anything that inspires me to do more, see more. Some examples are The Way, The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel, Wild, biographies, and travel shows. I review restaurants just for the experience but I am not a foodie. I like to eat out but my tastes are quite bland, I must admit. I am from the Midwest and have the taste buds to prove it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I don't have many vices. My passport, a trip to look forward to, and music to listen to on the plane.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
All of the places I want to travel to. I am a curious person and want to see and experience everything. I also think about how to fit more time in a day. I stay very busy but there are so many other things I want to do.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Nothing is typical with me.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're curious and want to know more. You can carry a conversation and not give one word answers to my questions. Also, if your profile only describes yourself as someone who "likes to have fun" or "works hard and plays hard" we probably won't get along. I think that describes everyone in the whole universe. Be more specific and be passionate about something, anything. One more thing, please no xenophobes!