I am easily entertained and so that has allowed me to have a lot of interesting hobbies. Currently all of my hobbies have become part time jobs. I have about six now and counting. I enjoy them because they allow me to experience new things and meet new people. I also have a full time professional job as a computer programmer so needless to say, I keep myself very busy.
I like to laugh and I have a wacky sense of humor at times. I can also be very low key and serious. Don't take everything I say so literal, I am sometimes just making a joke. I also tend to struggle in the gay community. I am out and proud but really have a problem with labels. That is probably what will turn me off from a person the quickest if they start trying to put me in a neat little package. I don't identify as masculine or feminine or any of those other popular descriptive words that the gay community likes to use. I am just me, and I like that.
It would be great to meet new friends and hopefully that special someone to go on this amazing journey with me. I am a passionate guy and like others who are also. I like adventure and trying new things. Road trips, camping, hiking, home improvement projects, and amusement parks are all right by me. I always say, I will either have a good time or I will have a great story. I am somewhat old fashioned and can be conservative in my actions therefore, I don't do any drugs and don't drink a lot. The simple things in life are what excites me so I don't need all of that other stuff.
I hardly ever make the first move but can be aggressive when I think the time is right. I am an honest person and will usually tell you things about myself that most people keep to themselves. I know this shocks some people but it is who I am.
When it comes to a relationship, I am not sure where I am on the subject. I would desperately like to be in another long term relationship, one that will last for the rest of my life. To be honest, I have set goals for my future and I am not sure where a relationship fits into that picture. For instance, I plan on retiring early and traveling the world in seven years. I am not sure if finding someone with those same goals in Philly is possible.
I am also not the type to casually date. When I do date, I put everything into it if I feel it is right. Therefore, I would love to meet new close friends and who knows, maybe I will meet one that will fit into my life of adventure.