Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
If you can't tell by my photo's, I love to travel and it is my
number one passion. I try to take a trip about once a month. I am
working on retiring in seven years, then I will travel
I am easily entertained and so that has allowed me to have a lot of
interesting hobbies. Currently all of my hobbies have become part
time jobs. I have about six now and counting. I enjoy them because
they allow me to experience new things and meet new people. I also
have a full time professional job as a computer programmer so
needless to say, I keep myself very busy.
I like to laugh and I have a wacky sense of humor at times. I can
also be very low key and serious. Don't take everything I say so
literal, I am sometimes just making a joke. I also tend to struggle
in the gay community. I am out and proud but really have a problem
with labels. That is probably what will turn me off from a person
the quickest if they start trying to put me in a neat little
package. I don't identify as masculine or feminine or any of those
other popular descriptive words that the gay community likes to
use. I am just me, and I like that.
It would be great to meet new friends and hopefully that special
someone to go on this amazing journey with me. I am a passionate
guy and like others who are also. I like adventure and trying new
things. Road trips, camping, hiking, home improvement projects, and
amusement parks are all right by me. I always say, I will either
have a good time or I will have a great story. I am somewhat old
fashioned and can be conservative in my actions therefore, I don't
do any drugs and don't drink a lot. The simple things in life are
what excites me so I don't need all of that other stuff.
I hardly ever make the first move but can be aggressive when I
think the time is right. I am an honest person and will usually
tell you things about myself that most people keep to themselves. I
know this shocks some people but it is who I am.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work a full time job and have a lot of hobbies. My job has become
so boring that I don't find it interesting anymore. My hobbies are
When it comes to a relationship, I am not sure where I am on the
subject. I would desperately like to be in another long term
relationship, one that will last for the rest of my life. To be
honest, I have set goals for my future and I am not sure where a
relationship fits into that picture. For instance, I plan on
retiring early and traveling the world in seven years. I am not
sure if finding someone with those same goals in Philly is
I am also not the type to casually date. When I do date, I put
everything into it if I feel it is right. Therefore, I would love
to meet new close friends and who knows, maybe I will meet one that
will fit into my life of adventure.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding good travel deals and navigating a country I have never
been to before. I am also a good conversationalist. I ask a lot of
questions and am truly interested in learning about a person, but
if the conversation becomes one sided then I will get bored and
check out. I am really easy to talk to and a lot of people like to
listen to my stories.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Anything that inspires me to do more, see more. Some examples are
The Way, The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel, Wild, biographies, and
travel shows. I review restaurants just for the experience but I am
not a foodie. I like to eat out but my tastes are quite bland, I
must admit. I am from the Midwest and have the taste buds to prove
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I don't have many vices. My passport, a trip to look forward to,
and music to listen to on the plane.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
All of the places I want to travel to. I am a curious person and
want to see and experience everything. I also think about how to
fit more time in a day. I stay very busy but there are so many
other things I want to do.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Nothing is typical with me.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're curious and want to know more. You can carry a conversation
and not give one word answers to my questions. Also, if your
profile only describes yourself as someone who "likes to have fun"
or "works hard and plays hard" we probably won't get along. I think
that describes everyone in the whole universe. Be more specific and
be passionate about something, anything. One more thing, please no
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