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40 San Diego, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 26
Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I grew up outside Fresno, so I appreciate being able to live in San Diego. My hobbies include hiking, biking, working out, traveling, and playing music.

I'm honest, trustworthy, and direct. I will do anything for my friends. I love talking about politics and philosophy. My friends say that I know more random facts than anyone they know (I call it being "worldly", they call it being "nerdy"). I like dive bars and live music (love the Belly Up and Casbah). I try to live by that most important and often ignored rule, "Do unto others..." I love to travel, both the big planned trips and the spur-of-the-moment kind. And people say that I'm really funny, although I know nothing in this profile would suggest that.

I'm looking for someone who is smart, witty, spontaneous and adventurous. Someone who is active, shares my love of travel, and appreciates all the things life has to offer.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am an RN working in a cardiac ICU. It's a second career for me, and I love it. Prior to nursing, I got Economics and Political Science degrees from UCSD, and I was doing litigation consulting up in LA, which I did not love. My job is pretty stressful, so on my days off I like to get out and burn off some steam, either at the gym, hiking, or riding my bike.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Playing guitar
Working on my house (I'm not quite ready to host a basic cable DIY show, but I'm close).
Trivial Pursuit, or any game where an encyclopedic knowledge of random and otherwise useless information is needed.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The red hair. Then the funny.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like to read non-fiction, like history, biographies, and science. When I read fiction, it tends to be sci-fi or something genre-bending (like Philip K. Dick or China Mieville). I like books that are not easily categorized. Actually, I like that trait in everything, especially people.

Movie and TV favorites are varied. I love "Louie" and "Parks & Rec". My friends and I habitually find the worst movies we can and have "Bad Movie Night" parties. I've loved everything that Joss Whedon has done. BSG was as close to perfect as a show can get. The Coens and Zack Snyder always deliver good stuff. So does David Fincher, especially Fight Club and The Game.

My taste in music runs the gamut from indie to oldies, classical to rap. Nada Surf, Neil Finn, Pearl Jam, Muse, Sam Cooke, The Mountain Goats, and Coheed & Cambria are among my favorites.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Apart from the obvious biochemical things like oxygen and water...
1. My family
2. My dog
3. My phone (there's so much music in there. It's crazy)
4. A guitar
5. Books
6. My view of the bay from home
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The logic, purpose, significance and "why?" of things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If there is a good band to go see, that's where I am. Otherwise I'm with friends at a good restaurant or bar.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
No, not going to just blurt stuff like that out to the anonymous internet.
You should message me if
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You are confident in who you are and where you are going in life.
You can see both the goodness and oddity in things that happen every day.
You are kind, quick-witted, and intellectual.
In other words, you should message me if you are awesome.