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30 Long Beach, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–29
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 11:48pm
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body type
Strictly anything
When drinking
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English (Okay)

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My self-summary
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My life is awesome. I am very blessed. From SF. Currently in Long Beach. I love my job. I love my house. I love my friends. I love my family. I love my life. Pretty much nothing to be disappointed about. I don't give a fuck how people percieve me or this website. Currently riding the high of epiphanies and turning them into realities. Shooting for the stars with the first stop on the moon. Possibly a unicorn in a previous life.

I figured I'd just lay it all out there as I now know the kind of people I am trying to bring into my life. I'm not nearly as serious as I sound here. Honestly feeling somewhat douchey for writing what basically is a personal ad but fuckit, I'm done playing around and this is okc.

I am looking for someone who is extremely intelligent not just intellectually but emotionaly and spiritually. Someone who has found at least glimpses of their purpose in life or are driven to find it. I want to stay young and am in no rush to grow old. I am extremely sapiosexual. A partner who doesn't arouse me with their mind will only breed a relationship that hurts us both. Ideally, eventually I'd like to be with someone I can trust to have other relationships with whoever they please but always know their heart resides with me. That is ideal though and love the idea of meeting in some middle ground as proposition of ownership is kind of absurd to me when it comes to spouses. Please only message me if this resonates with your own intentions.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Engineering shit for the man.

Holding down my job while working on figuring out big plans.

Plotting ways to make the world a better place.

Really trying to become more aware of my inner self and aligned with my energy in my non-working life.

I work 80 hours a week with half of that on my real job and the other on some shit that could get me out of corporate bullshit forever. I'm more concerned with getting out of my job than anything else in my life not because I hate it. I actually like my job. But there are higher callings for me.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Selling bibles and thumb wrestling for pink slips

Math problems and people problems

Seeing the big picture
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Fuck if I know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books.... I listen to a lot of the so called self help books trying to understand how to focus my energy better to improve my life. I say listen as I am usually too busy to sit down and read a book. I get through a couple a month by listening to them during the morning shower, commute, and sometimes at the gym.

Movies.... I watch movies sometimes to go to sleep, while I eat, or on a hangover.

Food..... I eat food. All kinds.

Music.... I like all kinds of music except for the obvious shitty music like mariachi, yodeling, country, etc... I've been DJing bass music for ten years and enjoy working on music when I'm done with work and need to let off some steam. I used to take it serious and now it's more or less a good outlet. Besides that there is simply far too much music to name specifically that I like as I'll love one song from somebody but hate the rest. But the one song I like will be my absolute jam. Lately though I've been listening to a lot of instrumental trip hop, trap, and dirty techno. It's good working/ass shaking music.

Current favorite song.
Current favorite vidoe.
That shit is will never stop me smiling.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My friends, music, computer, and dreams.... Wow that last one is super cheesy but it's true....
Six things huh...
How bout the occasional party as well? And sex. Or at least the faint dream of sex. Wait I already said dreams. How about positivity.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Positive shit.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Friday is usually the only day that I go out these days. I'm trying to not get hung over after partying as life is too short to feel like shit on the weekends. I wanna have full adventures throughout the weekend and not get too fucked one night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Besides all the dead hookers, the most private thing I guess would be that I'm afraid of getting stuck in a relationship where inevitably I'll end up hurting someone. I've began to see that I can only be in relationships where there is really serious potential or both sides know exactly what it is. Inspired now to lead a more non-monogomous life not out of pure carnal sex drive but because I don't believe in ownership. And jealousy is fucking dumb. To me a healthy relationship is built where both parties can be honest about ones feelings, Not out of any sense of jealousy or feelings of entitlement.
You should message me if
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If you have your shit together.
If you don't list "Christianity and very serious about it" in your profile.
If you think we have something in common.
If you generally consider yourself a positive person.*** Mandatory***
If you got spunk and can keep up with some banter. **Huge**
If you are a glass half full kind of person.
If you have goals and big ambitions.
If you have high level emotional intelligence.
If you like having drinks and talking shit.
If you don't have selfies in your underwear in front of the mirror.
If you don't have herpes and if you do, you just want to be friends.
If you are smart and have something interesting to say.
If you think we'll enjoy the same kind of music together.
If you want to get crazy at the burn this year wearing matching costumes. I'm thinking of different superheros to make up. Open to suggestions.