I was raised with a strong belief system that a good man is chilvalrous and above all else is always respectful and tender. Yes, I open doors, I never walk ahead, love to hold hands and cuddle, and I most often put the needs of the person I care about ahead of my own. I've never been a cheater or a beater and nothing could ever change that. Having been raised in the South I have an affinity for G.R.I.T.S. I'm not referring to the food. If your one you know the acronym. There is a charm, set of values, ethos, and good common sense that G.R.I.T.S have.
Avoidance of conflict is of the upmost importance to me. True affection and respect is comprised of being able to communicate effectively to a reasonable compromise. It takes two people working together to make two trails one road. I deal with conflict through my work. I don't want it at home. Jealousy is the bain of any relationship. I am fully trusting unless there is reason not to be. I'm neither possessive or obsessive and would never keep you from friends, family, or other obligations. At the same time I should be at the top of your daily bucket list whenever possible.
I'm an extrovert and can approach and talk with anyone. I can find common ground with most anyone. To me there are no strangers, just friends you haven't met yet. I can be quite sarcastic and the clown in the room if not properly sedated (JK!). I'll give the shirt off my back to help someone in need even if it means I go without .
I believe that the content of our character defines us. It's not where we have been but rather who we are and where we want to go. A kind word and a good deed can move mountains. I learned a long time ago that you catch more bees with honey than you do with vinegar.
I hope to meet someONE who becomes my best friend and confidant who mutually falls in love with me as much as I do with them. I'm an open book and I express that. I have to have the same reciprocated. I want to meet someone who sweeps me off my feet and takes my breath away as much as I do them.