Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I was born and raised here in the Atlanta area. I consider myself
intelligent, articulate, well mannered, a great conversationalist,
a valued friend, and a man who loves completely and unconditionally
with the right person.
I was raised with a strong belief system that a good man is
chilvalrous and above all else is always respectful and tender.
Yes, I open doors, I never walk ahead, love to hold hands and
cuddle, and I most often put the needs of the person I care about
ahead of my own. I've never been a cheater or a beater and nothing
could ever change that. Having been raised in the South I have an
affinity for G.R.I.T.S. I'm not referring to the food. If your one
you know the acronym. There is a charm, set of values, ethos, and
good common sense that G.R.I.T.S have.
Avoidance of conflict is of the upmost importance to me. True
affection and respect is comprised of being able to communicate
effectively to a reasonable compromise. It takes two people working
together to make two trails one road. I deal with conflict through
my work. I don't want it at home. Jealousy is the bain of any
relationship. I am fully trusting unless there is reason not to be.
I'm neither possessive or obsessive and would never keep you from
friends, family, or other obligations. At the same time I should be
at the top of your daily bucket list whenever possible.
I'm an extrovert and can approach and talk with anyone. I can find
common ground with most anyone. To me there are no strangers, just
friends you haven't met yet. I can be quite sarcastic and the clown
in the room if not properly sedated (JK!). I'll give the shirt off
my back to help someone in need even if it means I go without
I believe that the content of our character defines us. It's not
where we have been but rather who we are and where we want to go. A
kind word and a good deed can move mountains. I learned a long time
ago that you catch more bees with honey than you do with
I hope to meet someONE who becomes my best friend and confidant who
mutually falls in love with me as much as I do with them. I'm an
open book and I express that. I have to have the same reciprocated.
I want to meet someone who sweeps me off my feet and takes my
breath away as much as I do them.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I've been a professional law enforcement Officer for almost twenty
years. I am a special operations Officer for a large Atlanta area
police agency and work primarily as a hit and run investigator.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Calmly articulating my position and avoiding conflict
Bantering, joking at lifes hurdles, and picking up after
Driving without getting lost.
Its only fair to say what I'm not accomplished at: cooking and DIY
The first things people usually notice about me
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I suppose my......You tell me!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love reading but don't really have a preference. I love a great
novel. I read the Girl With The Dragon Tattoo trilogy most
I am a guy from the south so I lOVE college football. It's a
religious experience here. My taste in music is similar to most. I
like just about everything. My only exceptions are rap, some
R&B and Soul, and heavy metal.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I know these seem "heavy" but this is a dating sight. These things
are what relationships are about. Sure, I have lots of things I
would rather not be without. In the end money and material things
don't sustain a happy fulfilled life.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There isn't any such thing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
This is a bit of a oxymoron isn't it?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are looking for an emotionally gently soul to share life
You value good communication.
You are a good listener.
You want to genuinly meet a great guy
You are romantic or at least want romance
You want a best friend and confidant
Who are you looking for?
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