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53 Port Townsend, WA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 20
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Other, and laughing about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Rather not say
Has kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Other (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I believe we are here to learn and evolve, and that everything happens to help us learn along the way. I'm spiritual, but not defined as one who believes in a particular doctrine or religion; rather, as one who is actively pursuing the qualities of loving kindness and compassion. I appreciate the complexities and uniqueness of each person’s particular path. I value honesty and integrity.

I'm a pro-choice, pro-marriage equality, pro-labor union, pro-universal health care and pro-constitution. I think the "best" countries to follow would be (Democratic Socialist) Denmark and Sweden. Left of center politics.


Im optimistic of where I am now, and will be in the future. I have children that I love and coach soccer for them.. enjoy working with my hands in wood, copper, stone, and earth.. into acoustic music right now.

Ultimately, I want to become immersed in knowing and being known fully by another human being again. I want to expand my capacity to love. Bring out the best of who I am to others, and draw in those who are willing and able to bring the best of who they are to me. Overall, I seek a relationship distinguished by respect and kindness.

Previously I worked at Microsoft, raised Icelandic sheep and dogs, had an organic farm, birthed, sheared, and butchered lambs and goats and can even graft fruit trees.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
~Busy being the hero of my own story~

Training Jeet Kune Do, Bartitsu, and Muay Thai. Learning to cook, reading more than before. Learning to two-step.

Watching MLS, LaLiga and Liga MX.

to be continued.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a Dad, really. I think kids are cool. Coaching and refereeing soccer. Building stuff using recycled materials. Laughing; watching sunsets at Rialto Beach; laying on my back watching stars, stir fry, spooning.

I also speak "other" fluently.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile and green eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
When Everything Changes, Change Everythng, Calling in the One, The 4 Agreements, The Art of Kissing, Tao of Jeet Kune Do, Dad's hse/Mom's hse, CWG series, Book of Massage, Spanish Soccer Coaching Bible, Fifa Laws of the Game.

Humoor towards old Pink Panther and Police Squad movies and Far Side. 3 stooges bore me.

Junior Brown,

Tommy Emmanual,

Andy McKee,

Danny Barnes,


Thai, Mexican, crab legs and butter; homemade popcorn with butter and brewers yeast; heirloom tomatoes from my garden; the first bite of a fresh apple/plum from my orchard; the end piece of a great baguette dipped in olive oil.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The sun
Salsa and chips
The ocean
White sage smudge sticks
Cool, clear water
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
When can I get back to Rialto Beach.

I think that as we have freewill, which means we have the power to make the ultimate decision – how we perceive every moment and every event in our life.

If you truly understand this, then nothing in your life can impact you in a way that you don’t want it to.Im looking for the person with sense of humor,passion and positive balance in his life.,
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Getting ready for soccer Sat. morning like some of you are. I see you grinning.

Kids every other weeknd. Weekends finishing remodeling my house or working extra to pay off debt.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I eat safeway sherbet icecream (big tub).
I LOVE strawberry soda.
I use the same coffee cup more than once.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are a good person who wants to enjoy life and meet new people hoping that someday you'll find magic but until that day you're willing to settle for just a whole lot of fun. No mean, cranky or unhappy people please and thank you very much!

You want the type of man who wears out your lipstick, not your mascara, and you're brave enough to connect authentically.

I look forward to hearing from you...


*** Those thinking the earth is ~6000 years old, needing a “savior” in their life, think there is a heaven and hell,


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