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robertasflame

60 F Santee, CA

My Details

Last Online
May 11
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Retired
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm looking for the last love of my life. Although I am 57, I am told I look much younger. Whatever the case may be, I want to live life and age gracefully, holding my partner's hand as we go. I am idealistic, creative. and sensitive, a child at heart for sure. My friends describe me as witty or funny.I have been a psychotherapist for 30+ years. I have retired, but I do keep my license active, I am working on some free-lance writing.I am looking for an honorable, honest. intelligent, man who has a big heart and a great sense of humor. As for myself, I love learning something new. I read non-fiction, and think truth is more fascinating than fiction. I love history too, and any kind of new info or facts. I am very interested in transpersonal Psych {like hypnosis, the paranormal, etc.} I believe in the connection of body, mind and spirit. I am a Reiki Master. For fun, I like Sight-seeing, and any kind of travel, including road trips. I have been on 4 cruises which were all great. My Father was in the Air Force, so we lived in Morrocco, Germany,France, and other bases in the U.S. Most of my family is from Indiana. I was brought up with a strong connection to God, family and good old mid-western values. I am grateful for this, because it is the foundation upon which I have based my life. I always try to be very considerate, thoughtful and loving. I give my whole heart to only one man. My Father was murdered when I was 24, so I treasure those I love. I have a wonderful son, I raised by myself, who is now 25. He has blessed me with an adorable baby girl (4). No time spent has ever been as rewarding as being her "Grammy". I believe your only legacy is the people you helped, those you saved. and those you loved. Although I have alot of education, you don't have to have one to be an expert at something. Are you? Some of my Likes are: most movies except horror (they freak me out!}and sci fi I like.most music, rock n roll, mo-town, country, etc., and I love to sing. When I am not in a relationship I am usually running around doing this and that, but when in a relationshp I prefer to spend time with my guy. I have lots of stuff to do though, and there is rarely a dull moment for me.. I played all sports growing up of course, but now I am usually walking alot, shopping, walking the swap meet or antique stores, admiring the beautiful and unusual. I can have fun doing just about anything, and I can relate to any age group. because people actually do intrigue and fascinate me. If you think this sounds interesting, you know what to do. Thanks for taking the time to read about me, and be sure and stay tuned for.....the rest of the story...........
What I’m doing with my life
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Whatever I want I guess, but I really enjoy helping people in one way or another. I am currently doing some writing. People in general need so much help. I have done alot of volunteer work in the past. My son wants me to start a business involving blogging on the internet to answer peoples questions. We'll see! I am also working on some rhyming stories for children.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Here is the deal: I am pretty good at everything I try, because I put everything into it. I think I am a pretty good cook and all that domestic stuff. I was the oldest and the only girl, so I had to do all of the chores around our house.. I am very fast at it too, because I did it so much. I am like the fastest ironer west of the Mississippi. I am a writer, more of love for writing poetry.I love to sing, I think I have excellent taste in things, I love decorating, I am interested in Feng Shui.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Of course the first thing people notice is my height, 6'1". That is one of the reasons I get along so well with everybody, because I had to learn to cope with people starring at me. They would tell me I should be a model and that would embarass me. Or, if someone had a smart comment to make I used my sense of humor and always had a snappy comeback. I hope, that people usually notice my personna, which is always warm and caring. I smile alot and I am sensitive to the people around me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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(Man this is a lot of work)... Books- I read non-fiction, self-help I read personal growth, alternative healing, hypnosis,progressive techniques in psychology. Already said I like all movies except horror, vampire, chuckie/pinhead stuff-yuk! I love learning about hidden societies, Third Reich,Viet nam war--yes. because I completely support all veterans, My Father was one. Love food,but watch what I eat! Try anything once... I can cook just about anything except gourmet, but I would like to learn. Have you ever tried to make something out of nothing? Well. that is how I learned to cook. it is an art form in and of itself. Sometimes military families don't have much money. so you have to get very creative.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
family, friends, freedom, love, peaceful and harmonious environment, creative pursuits
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Self-Improvemment/spiritual pursuits/the future/living in the now and appreciating the simple things in ilife/my family and their well-being (because my Mother is 80). What I can do to make the world a better place....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Chillin' by myself and relaxing, visiting my girlfriend and her family. (I have not been dating for about a year). Cramming all of my errands in before the weekend. Going out once in awhile for happy hour even though I don't drink. Going to Viejas to hear a good band...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have been through some very scairy situations and some really awful times in my life, but I am not a whiner and I always end up on my feet. The most devastating thing of my life was My Father's murder, which left me heart-broken. Being in the military it was like that at home, but just before my Dad was killed he changed. He and my Mother went to "Marriage Encounter" and they fell in love again. He was a different man. The soldier became more approachable and loving than ever before. We were just really getting to know the loving side of him, the "rock", that could actually say the words, "I love You", and then, he was killed...... Life is funny that way isn't it...
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 40–62
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
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after seeing my picture and reading my profile you believe that I am the kind of woman you would like to meet in person. Chemistry is essential, and we all know that Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Sometimes when you meet someone who they are speaks louder than anything they actually say.....