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28 Saint Louis, MO Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs
English, Spanish (Okay), Thai (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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when i'm not thinking about working in a larger movement to close prisons, raising a genderless child, refusing marriage until it isn't only a non-homophobic institution, but also one that isn't classist, racist, and patriarchal; i'm probably connecting with my friends, making people feel awkward, eating good food, thinking about the future of photography, creating stories in my head that don't make it to paper, welcoming the disturbing, considering the other side, or running 3.5 miles.

I am sarcastic, eyes, and ears
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
living in an intentional community in north city, working for/with the homeless, volunteering full time. deflecting my mother's questioning about when it'll be time for me to get a "job." cooking with friends, eating with friends, riding bikes with friends, reading books. doing whatever i want, which isn't as easy as it sounds.

oh, and mourning the loss of roseanne on netflix instant stream.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
transforming experience and information, persevering through intentionally failing at society's expectations for me, reflective listening, being alone, being with others.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
the dirty look i'm giving them. as i get older, it's more likely a smile.

and my ethnic ambiguity. always.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books: beloved, the bell jar, the end of alice, the illustrated man, the omnivore's dilemma, are prison's obsolete?, hunger games series, the new jim crow, the book: on the taboo against knowing who you are, einstein's dreams, school books about anthropology, books about gender, social movements, deviant behavior
music: cocorosie, phosphorescent, neil young, wilco, her space holiday, patti griffin, pj harvey, gil scott-heron, dance music that i don't know, fleetwood mac, lovers, thao and the get down stay down, janelle monae, the knife, gy!be
food: pescatarian thai, vietnamese, indian, chinese, japanese, sushi, notice a trend?
movies: documentary, indie, horror movies when i'm high
tv: 6 feet under, my so-called life, roseanne, intervention, project runway
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
love, someone to talk to, sunlight, shade, sleep, nutritious food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
an effort that will help us all to get to the other side.

the shapes of bodies, visual composition, praying before meals, holding hands, body warmth, places other than here, the disturbing, deviant behavior including, but not limited to, drug addicts, prostitutes, men, polyamorists, doll-lovers, jesus freaks, bestial love, etc.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
probably painting my nails; hoping i remembered to put my shoes on first this time. then drinking, dancing, sharing a bed with my friends or going home and watching a movie with my dog.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i'm probably a lot like you are.
You should message me if
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you want to frolic in a field (clothes optional), swim in a river, have an uproarious conversation, are capable of a full range of emotions, or would like to participate in some bedroom banter.

or just if you feel like it.

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