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50 Seattle, WA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 38–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:02pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Other, and laughing about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of Ph.D program
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi there - I'm relaxed and playful, intense and analytical. I'm smart and I'm also a creature of instinct. I have a lot of love to give and can be very nurturing. I'm a mom and also lead a very independent life (the kids' dad is great). Emotional intelligence and open-hearted curiosity are very important to me. I can be pretty serious but when I'm comfortable and well-matched I love to play in every way.

I enjoy experiencing my natural femininity blossom in the company of a smart, mature, masculine, open-hearted man. Emotional depth, intelligence, athleticism, a sense of adventure and general physicality and sensuality are keys to a fully engaged life for me. Though I definitely have a lazy, loungy, cat-like side, I want a partner who can dive into physical (mental, emotional, philosophical...) adventure. I'm attracted to physical strength and versatility as well as to people who are successful in a life they've defined on their own terms. A capacity to be fully present in the biggest sense of the word is a huge bonus.

Note: If you write me and I don't write back, please know that I appreciate your interest very much, and am just approaching online dating with a very light touch. That means I only engage with you if I'm interested as well. Please don't take a non-response as a lack of appreciation for your gesture, and I understand if you choose not to write back too.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm an aerial acrobatics coach and personal trainer, and I teach both adults and kids and perform every few months. It's just one piece of my work and not full-time, and I like it that way. I'm heading back to school in the Fall to get a Master's in Counseling, which feels so right it's like it's already happened! I also do photography professionally (art photography and portraiture - I have an upcoming project I'm very excited about!). I ride a motorcycle, rock climb occasionally, dance a lot (partner, contact improv), hike, ski and love hot, sandy beaches. I enjoy dressing up for nights out (meals with friends, music, theater, circus). I have two teenage kids who are increasingly independent and awesome. Being a mom is like breathing; it's not what I "do" it's who I am. My kids are beautiful people and helping them grow expands my universe.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-Being open to all the experiences life brings, and doing it with a very high degree of awareness.
- Picking up on the stories present in any given moment
-Inversion :-)
-saying what I mean and meaning what I say.
-analytical thinking.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I think they see that I'm an athlete. I've been told I have a quiet strength about me and an engaging smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Reading: The Palace Walk, A Winter's Tale, A Story Like the Wind, The Border Trilogy, LOTR, HP, Pilgrim at Tinker's Creek, Don't Let's Go to the Dogs Tonight, Orion Magazine, Wired Magazine. NYTimes every day. On my nightstand: When Fear Falls Away

Movies: American Beauty, The Three Burials of Melquiades Estrada, Coen Brothers!, action/adventure, theater pieces made into movies (Lear of Texas, 6 degrees of separation...)...

Shows: music in intimate settings, circus performances, dance, theater.

Music: I listen to music almost constantly. Blockhead, Ray LaMontagne, Gramatik, Zoe Keating, Black Keys, Nusrat Fateh Ali Kahn, Alt-J, James Vincent-McMorrow, Ben Howard, Asgeir, Bonobo, Deadmau 5, How to Destroy Angels, Banks, Bach, modern cello - lots of stuff.

Food: I eat "Paleo", which means my food is fresh, healthy and organic/local - mostly meat and veg. I don't eat any grains (occasional rice), minimal sugar, no legumes, not much dairy. It makes me feel fantastic. The point is to reduce inflammation and stabilize energy for optimal athletic performance and general vitality.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
OK, I'll play the game....Beyond physical survival? I probably wouldn't WANT to live without these things, but I won't be surprised at how priorities can shift:
Healthy food
A Challenge
Creative movement
Being Outdoors
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Consciousness, food, movement, the state of the planet, juggling projects, kids, relationships, how to tune my life to just the right balance. How to reduce my footprint. It's an ever-evolving thing. I also spend even more time not thinking about a thing - just being a point of awareness.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At a show, listening to music and dancing, rehearsing, hanging with my kids or friends and making a nice meal.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I can't fall asleep if my feet are cold, and I love warming them up on a male leg.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. live life on your own terms, authentically, unconventionally and with integrity, curiosity and passion and you're looking for the same in a full-grown woman. If your head and your heart and your body are fully wired together. If you take really good care of yourself, are fit and athletic, and want to make the most of all that being healthy and strong allows you in life's opportunities and adventures.