Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
You could say I led the first 40 years of my life as the golden boy
- doing everything right and by the rule book - good grades, good
job, lovely family, house in the suburbs. Geez, my mom is proud of
me. But these days, the realization that life is short and
embracing the words carpe diem - I seek beauty and connection in
other people (particularly, hot, smart and sexy ones).
I am happily married to a wonderful, beautiful woman foxglove_73
for the past 14 years. After much
introspection, we decided to open up our marriage to connections of
all varieties. It's been an amazing ride ever since. Would you like
to get on (and off) with me/us? Yes, we are available as a couple
My life seems to be an exercise in duality: growing up in two
cultures (Asia/Europe), reconciling my punk rock sensibilities with
the plastic corporate world, being a good family man and following
my dreams/passions. We all struggle with balance, and tether at
time. But it's the challenges that keeps me alive and ploughing
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Weekdays? Breakfast Guy early mornings, Engineer/Tech guy by day,
Weaver of Tales by night, Hunkaburninglove late late nights.
Wherever do I fit in the fun stuff? Oh - there's where you come
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Numbers. Spreadsheets. Finding solutions. Getting things done.
Manning the grill. Fixing cars. Just being generally nice. I've
been accused of being too nice.
I'm a loyal friend. And a dad.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My animated and gesticulated way of telling stories. My hands are
Also, my unusual accent. People assume I'm Brazilian. Or Turkish.
Or Peruvian. It's the result of my mixed heritage.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Most recently read Haruki Murakami, watched the Lego movie (yes, I
have kids), attended that blasted Morrissey concert and dreaming
about the pork belly stuffed dates at Tribune Tavern.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My evil plan for world domination.
Or, how to finally push my food truck business into
I also think a lot about giant robots, am I doing this right and
how not to fuck it up.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
(and thankful it's the weekend.)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It takes more than that for me to share that. Let's talk about it
over coffee or a drink.
I'm unstereotypically a male, in the fact, that organised sports
bore me to death. Give me a book, a beer and the sun on my face any
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you are a single or attached female, and want to hang out. If
you are part of a couple, and want to hang out with me and my wife.
Friendship first, anything else will just happen naturally. If you
work in tech , in the South Bay and need a lunch buddy - I'm down
for that too. I am straight and not into men, but thank you for the
interest anyway. My wife and I share info, so you must feel
comfortable meeting and communicating with her in case hanging out
with you becomes a habit, which I hope it does.
Wow, you're still reading? Kudos to you! You may notice I don't
have face photos on here, another exercise in duality of being a
good family man/ upright citizen and pursuing new adventures. It's
not conservatism that won out, only the desire to avoid strange
stares and having to answer stupid questions from the close-minded
in our close-knit community. But, I will be happy to share my mug
with you, just drop me a note!
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