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41 • Oakland, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 27–50
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Today – 3:00pm
- Asian, White
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body type
- Strictly anything
- Catholicism, and laughing about it
- Graduated from masters program
- Rather not say
- Open relationship
- Mostly non-monogamous
- Has kids, but doesn’t want more
- Has dogs
- English (Fluently), German (Fluently), Tagalog (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly)
I am happily married to a wonderful, beautiful woman foxglove_73 for the past 13 years. After much introspection, we decided to open up our marriage to connections of all varieties. It's been an amazing ride ever since. Would you like to get on (and off) with me/us? Yes, we are available as a couple too!
My life seems to be an exercise in duality: growing up in two cultures (Asia/Europe), reconciling my punk rock sensibilities with the plastic corporate world, being a good family man and following my dreams/passions. We all struggle with balance, and tether at time. But it's the challenges that keeps me alive and ploughing forward.
Wherever do I fit in the fun stuff? Oh - there's where you come along!
I'm a loyal friend. And a dad.
Also, my unusual accent. People assume I'm Brazilian. Or Turkish. Or Peruvian. It's the result of my mixed heritage.
Or, how to finally push my food truck business into existence.
I also think a lot about giant robots, am I doing this right and how not to fuck it up.
(and thankful it's the weekend.)
I'm unstereotypically a male, in the fact, that organised sports bore me to death. Give me a book, a beer and the sun on my face any day.
Wow, you're still reading? Kudos to you! You may notice I don't have face photos on here, another exercise in duality of being a good family man/ upright citizen and pursuing new adventures. It's not conservatism that won out, only the desire to avoid strange stares and having to answer stupid questions from the close-minded in our close-knit community. But, I will be happy to share my mug with you, just drop me a note!
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