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43 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 35–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Italian (Okay), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I fly. For fun and for a living. Up there, and while that’s complex, everything is really simple up there. I get to see the world. I get to see the world from above, the curvature of the earth spreading out below me. And that’s really it.

Ah, if only it were so simple down here—so difficult to find relationship balance (and I admit, partly because I am away so often). I am smart. I am affectionate and loving, very fit, emotionally and psychologically attuned, financially solvent—and with the exception of a heavy travel schedule—I can be “here” for you. I love exotic travel and have the right job for doing and sharing it. I love great food and wine. I love to walk and hike and paddle in beautiful places…and do so regularly (women tell me men SAY that, but haven't left the couch in 10 years). I am boastfully skilled at every kind of intimacy you can imagine, and often quite bold.

I like confident women who are a little bit wild and very affectionate. Who love to adventure, explore, and experiment. Who make me laugh. If you like what you’ve read and what you see, please write.

Oh, and I have "homes" (the earth and sky are my real homes) in the OC, Dallas, NY, LA, London, and Frankfurt...and frequent Seattle, Chicago, Charlotte. In other words, geography is not an issue with me!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Flying, mostly. I get to fly Falcons for private clients, mostly to Europe and Asia. Very lucky, very lucrative.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Flying, exploring, writing, cooking, and the amorous arts...if I do say so myself.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes and my ripped body--extremely proud that I look the way I do WITHOUT being obsessive about it!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Too many to mention...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Plenty of jet fuel, laughter, passionate kisses/sex, Rome, my family, words
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What's beyond the edge of the universe...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Rome, London, Paris, LA, or.....hundreds of other places doing who-knows-what. The life of an adventurer...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a man's man...but a great cook.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You think life is an adventure and you're looking for a fellow adventurer to FULLY partner with: an alpha male...minus the arrogance. I am by turns cerebral, generous, fun, sophisticated, street-smart, and endlessly adventurous....and that's what you're in search of.