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rockhandjive

21 / M / straight / Single

Lyman, South Carolina

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
Thin
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Sagittarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), French

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I am charming, spectacular, and real horrorshow.

My Self-Summary

a dreamer, conflicted, inquiring, introverted, philosophical, thoughtful, spontaneous, free, burdened, wide ranging

understanding, empathy, compassion, love, beauty, overcast skies, gray areas, poison, perfection

existing for the moment, experiencing, feeling, contributing to humanity, empathizing, seeking truth

What I’m doing with my life

being fascinating

I’m really good at

being fascinating

The first things people usually notice about me

Qu'est-ce qu'un homme charmant

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

books / Oscar Wilde, The Last Temptation of Christ, Leo Tolstoy, Lolita, Fahrenheit 451, Brave New World, Time on Two Crosses: The Collected Writings of Bayard Rustin, The Story of My Experiments with Truth, Thich Nhat Hanh, fiction and nonfiction relating to being alive, truth, humanity, social science, philosophy, history, spirituality

movies / Velvet Goldmine, A Clockwork Orange, SLC Punk!, James Dean, Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory, Merry Christmas Mr. Lawrence, Gandhi, Brother Outsider: The Life of Bayard Rustin, Hotel Rwanda, Milk, Boycott, RENT, Punch Drunk Love, Lars and the Real Girl, A Beautiful Mind, David Bowie

music / David Bowie, The Smiths, Morrissey, R.E.M., The Smashing Pumpkins, Michael Jackson, The Jackson 5, Queen, ELO, The Vaselines, The Byrds

food / a vegetarian who hates veggies : (

I spend a lot of time thinking about

the day that your mentality catches up with your biology

On a typical Friday night I am

on a hillside desolate

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

that Billie Jean is not my lover

You should message me if

If anything sparks intrigue, a personality trait, an interest, anything really.

If you want to live in the moment, or you want to make a change.

If you're interested in an intellectual conversation.

I am looking for friends, potentially dating. I am interested in seeing if there is a like mind, but I am also interested in chatting with anyone who may be different.

I abhor profiles so mine is hardly an indication of who I am, and anyhow, I want to let you draw your own conclusions about who I am. So let's chat : )